4 Must-Try Kinky Positions with Sex Toys

So many people associate sex toys solely with solo play but bringing them into the bedroom with your partner is an incredible way to spice up intimacy and shared pleasure with your partner. Adding them to the mix turns up the heat, deepens your connection, and even improves communication (which, let’s be real, is the secret ingredient to any great relationship). Whether it’s experimenting with new sensations or bringing a little extra stimulation into your favorite positions, the right toy can take things from steamy to a downright unforgettable sexual experience.

The best part? You don’t need to overhaul your entire routine. The four positions we’re about to dive into are already tried-and-true favorites, so chances are you’ve mastered them. Now, it’s just a matter of adding a toy into the equation for an even more electrifying experience. And if you and your partner haven’t yet ventured into the world of sex toy shopping together, well—let’s just say that’s an adventure in itself (but we’ll save that for another time). 😉

Difficulty: Beginner

Intimacy Level: 5/5

Recommended Toy: We-Vibe Chorus

Okay, let’s be real – missionary might have a bad rap for being “basic” or “old-school”, but in reality, it’s one of the most intimate and versatile positions out there. It’s all about that face-to-face connection – deep eye contact, soft (or passionate) kisses, and full-body closeness that makes everything feel extra personal. Plus, there are plenty of ways to spice it up with your man while still keeping that intimacy. Need a hint? Try having him lift your legs onto his shoulders for a whole new angle of pleasure.

How to do it

A little warm-up never hurts, and this toy is perfect for that. You can slide it in before things even get started, letting him tease you with his fingers or even wear it as a panty vibe if you’re feeling extra playful (because who says the fun has to start in the bedroom?).

Once you’re both ready, let him slide in and enjoy the full experience. The vibrations work for both of you – stimulating your G-spot on the inside, massaging your clit on the outside, and giving him a sensation that he will not want to end. The result? Deep, blended orgasms that make this “basic” position feel anything but.

Difficulty: Intermediate

Intimacy Level: 2/5

Recommended toy: Lovense Domi 2

This position is practically made for a wand vibrator – it lets you enjoy deep penetration while keeping your clitoris front and center for stimulation. The best part? The vibrations don’t just stay with you; they travel, meaning your partner gets in on the fun, too. A win-win!

How to do it

The receiving partner can brace herself on the bed in a classic all-fours position (technically all-threes because one hand needs to hold the vibe...) or kneel with one hand steadying against the headboard. With the other, she can hold the wand vibrator against her clitoris, letting the rumbles work their magic. The vibrations will flow through both of your bodies, adding a whole new layer of sensation to the experience. Expect an orgasm that feels like a full-body event.

Would recommend? Oh, absolutely – 11/10.

Difficulty: Intermediate

Intimacy Level: 3/5

Recommended toy: Lelo Tor 3

This position is a favorite with the ladies for a reason – it puts you in control, letting you set the pace, angle, and rhythm of penetration. This position is a fan favorite for a reason—it puts you in control, letting you set the pace, angle, and rhythm of penetration.

How to do it

Slide the cock ring down their shaft until it rests snugly at the base. Angle the vibrating head so it’s positioned near his lower abdomen – this way, when you move together, the ring makes direct contact with your clitoris and labia, sending waves of sensation through both of you. The snug fit not only helps him stay harder for longer, but the vibrations travel up his shaft, intensifying pleasure on every stroke. Meanwhile, the vibrator’s head delivers just the right buzz to your most sensitive spots, creating a shared, orgasmic experience.

If you’re looking for a way to turn up the intensity for both of you, this is definitely one to try!

Difficulty: Intermediate

Intimacy Level: 4/5

Recommended toy: We-Vibe Touch X

This position is all about intimacy and easy access - your partner (aka the ‘big spoon’) can trail kisses along your neck, nibble on your earlobes, and – bonus -easily reach your clitoris. That makes it a perfect setup for incorporating a bullet vibrator (highly recommended). On top of that, the angle of penetration means direct stimulation to the G-spot, which, as you probably know, feels absolutely incredible.

How to do it

First, get into the classic spooning position—but this time, ditch the clothes. You can save the cozy cuddling for afterward. If you’re unfamiliar with spooning, here’s a quick breakdown: Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, with the small spoon’s back snug against the big spoon’s chest. It’s called "spooning" because – surprise! – you fit together like two stacked spoons.

Once you’re in position, penetration is smooth and effortless, and either of you can hold the vibrator against your clit. Between the angled thrusts, the warm kisses on your neck, and the sensual full-body contact, you’re in for an intense climax. And if you sync up your timing just right? That simultaneous orgasm is pure magic.

Difficulty: Advanced

Intimacy Level: 5/5

Recommended toy: Womanizer Pro40

Sex isn’t just about penetration – it’s about connection, exploration, and maximizing pleasure in every way possible. Incorporating toys into partnered play adds an extra layer of excitement, and this oral sex position is the perfect example of how to mix things up.

How to do it

In this setup, your partner lies on their side behind you, head nestled comfortably between your thighs. This angle gives them unrestricted access to your labia, vagina, and, if you’re into it, your anus. Bonus: It also puts you in the perfect position to reach back and stroke their shaft.

Now, here’s where the magic happens. With your free hand, grab a clitoral suction toy (personal fave!) and let it work its pulsing, tingling magic while their tongue explores you. The combo of oral stimulation and gentle suction? Next-level! Expect toe-curling, sheet-gripping results.

Once you’ve had your moment (ladies first, always! 😉), it’s their turn. This is a great time to transition into penetrative sex while your body is still buzzing with pleasure. Or, take things slow and introduce the suction toy on their frenulum—it delivers mind-blowing results for them too. Either way, you’re both in for an unforgettable experience.

There’s a whole world of options when it comes to adding toys to your sex life, and this is just the beginning. Hopefully, you’ve got a solid starting point to explore what feels right for you. The key? Experimentation! There’s no “wrong” toy, no “wrong” way to use one—just what works for you and your pleasure.

So go ahead, get curious, and have fun!