Best Sex Toys for Couples (And Other Fun Ways to Spice It Up)

Plot Twist: Your Perfect Relationship Could Use Some Toys

I used to think that sex toys were interesting, but not something necessary for fucking. Sex was always the same, just sex. However, over the years I have come to the realization that I bust a fat nut when I am stimulated from multiple parts of my body. A dick in my pussy hole, and a nice vibe on my clit is all a girl could ask for, honestly.

Sometimes people feel taboo about getting down and dirty with toys, but that’s a stupid reason to not try something. Toys can honestly be a game changer in the bedroom.

A vibrator is dope to use for solo play because you can control the speeds, and even have the option to cum multiple times as your vibrator DJs the bean into splash city.

But what is really my favorite part about intimate moments is getting to know what turns my partner on. Toys are fun to experiment with together, and who knows you may learn a thing or two about your favorite kinks, fetishes, and impact toys. These findings can unlock new ways to get your pussy/dick erupting like a fucking volcano. 

It’s not like you have to reinvent the wheel, but maybe you can rethink the wheel as a fun cock ring or collar for more nasty play. Here is an all inclusive guide to the best sex toys for couples to get that cookie creaming. 

Yummy Yoni Candy

Stimulating the clit is a great warm up for sex. Suction toys and buzzy vibrators can be used alone or with your partner, I personally love using a Womanizer toy for suction and a M’Lady toy for vibrations as my partner watches me please myself. 

Clit stimulators are a good way to ease into the sex toy world, as they are designed for external play. This doesn't mean toys should replace oral foreplay entirely, they're a bonus tool for building excitement to the point of release.

After getting warmed up, it is time to move onto naughtier things. There is always room for a little BDSM in the bedroom right?

Power Play 

Power dynamics exist in all relationships, and intimacy is no exception.

If you put in the time to understand how power is negotiated, expressed, and balanced, then your sex life is going to be so much healthier (and hotter).

When it comes to sex, some couples find themselves aroused by the thrill of heightened power play where one partner takes the reins while the other submits. This dynamic isn't just about getting frisky; it requires genuine trust, open communication, and yes, a well curated collection of toys to bring those deliciously dirty fantasies to life.

Here's the thing about sex, it's not static. As you evolve, so do your desires. What gets you wet at 25 may be vastly different from what makes you hot and heavy at 50. Your kinks can shift and adapt right along with you. And that's perfectly normal.

If you're someone who enjoys toeing the line between pain and pleasure, nipple clamps offer the perfect hands-free stimulation. Imagine having an aching pressure against your nipples as you bounce on a dick. The dual sensation can be absolutely mind blowing.

For me, I like when someone has power over me, and controls my pleasure by edging, whipping, and making me scream for mercy as they fuck the shit out of me.

This type of BDSM, CNC kink, or other form of power play may be your hot ticket to pleasureville. People interested in these power dynamics often get turned on playing either a dominant or submissive role during sex. Those who are dominant will take charge, by controlling the arousal and climax of their submissive partner. Those with a CNC kink, consensual non consent sex, role play scenarios such as rape, kidnapping, blackmail, etc. with one person playing the victim and the other acting as the perpetrator.

These are desires that are completely normal and healthy, but they require extensive communication and enthusiastic consent from all parties before exploring. If you're interested, couples can incorporate specialized toys designed for this type of play. Some popular options for couples exploring BDSM include:

• whips

• chains

• canes

• sex swings

• restraints

• handcuffs

• hooded masks

• butt plugs

• harnesses

While these are great for couples who have a disposable income, some will opt for cheaper toys that will elicit a similar reaction. The internet is a great place to delve into your dark fantasies and explore them as a couple. In exploring the virtual landscape you can uncover new realizations about your sexuality and fulfillment.

The Digital Dilemma: AI vs VR

Artificial Intelligence (AI) and Virtual Reality (VR) software has taken over the internet, and for little fuck gremlins like you, that means more interactive and experimental porn. VR is great for playing video games, but even better for watching porn. The virtual reality experience is unmatched when it comes to consuming adult content because users become immersed in the virtual universe with a heightened emphasis on the senses: sight and hearing.

Websites like WankzVR, BaDoinkVR, VRP, NaughtyAmericaVR, VR bangers, and CzechVR are a great starting point for people. In addition to VR, AI has transformed the adult content landscape to offer more variety to the masses. AI content typically includes digitally made pornography, which can be customized to the preferences of the user. 

While this digital renaissance of content offers many benefits, users should be aware of some concerning developments. In the AI realm, "deep fakes" pose a new threat, these are videos or photos that have been digitally altered to make a person appear to be doing something they never actually did. People's images from social media are being stolen and manipulated to create pornographic content without their consent. Given that this technology exists and is being misused, be extremely cautious about what you share publicly online.

However, when used ethically and safely the online world is fantastic for exploring kinks between partners. The best couples' toys don't discriminate they are equal opportunity pleasure providers that celebrate every inch of both partners, not just checking boxes from one perspective.

Men Have Feelings Too…Especially When it Comes to the Head

It is very typical for people to assume that only women can get satisfaction from using toys, while this is a myth, it is important to mention that toys are a universal sex enhancer for all people, not just women.

Let’s talk cock rings, which are devices that work by constricting blood flow to the penis which results in erections that last longer. Some of the more intricate rings have nubs for extra stimulation making penetration feel amazing during sex.

So you tried a cock ring, and it awoke something within you. Now you’re thinking about how hot it would be if your partner whipped out more toys to get your toes curling in bed. Studies show that 60% of women in their life have fantasied about being dominant during sexual intercourse.

As a Dominatrix, BDSM tools coupled with male masturbation toys will have your partner edging on the brink of a climax. Toys like a penis sleeve, deep throat pocket pal, anal beads, and butt plugs will make a man shake with pleasure. Eventually, the pressure will build to a point of release which is what we all strive for.

Cum is super hot, and even hotter when you are insatiable for your partner and their carnal pleasures. I tend to swallow my partner’s cum when giving that gluck gluck 3,000, and have never actually played with it before. After doing some research online I found out that this is world is really popular. If you love getting cum facials or snowballing your cum, then guess what… cum play may be your thing.

There are many kinks and toys that may be of interest to you, and I did not have the capacity to name them all. But that's what sex is for; to figure out what you like and dislike. Embrace curiosity as your guide. Discovering your personal pleasure landscape is an evolving journey that rewards patience and mindful exploration.

That’s all I have for you my little fuckers, keep it classy and get down right nasty with it. Check out Toychats.com for more horny content.