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Summer has arrived, and if you're off work, you might have some extra free time.  Why not use it to take a well-deserved break and try some new, sexy activities with your partner? It’s the perfect way to make this a summer to remember.

Beat the Heat With These Chill Ideas

Summer heat can get intense. If you don’t have air conditioning, trying to have fun in bed can quickly turn into a sweaty mess, and not in a good way.

When the day finally cools down, find a safe spot, like a backyard pool or a secluded nude beach, and take a skinny dip in the cool water. It might feel intimidating at first, but it can be an exciting addition to your summer bucket list. If public nudity isn’t your thing, a partner shower session after a hot day can help you cool down while still turning up the heat in a fun way. If you haven’t tried shower sex yet, this summer is the perfect time to check it off your list.

Interested in trying a new sexy game? Have an ice play session by exploring each other's body with an ice cube pressed against your hot body. 

Hot Summer, Hotter Dates: Romantic Ideas

Summer is the perfect time to embrace love and explore new adventures with your partner. And what’s romance without a little sexy fun? Plan a picnic and read erotic stories together over a charcuterie board and a glass of wine. You might even get a few ideas to try out later.

Looking for a way to spoil your partner? Try giving each other nude massages with coconut oil. You may not be a pro at first, but trust the process because it can turn into a fun and intimate experience.

Summer is also a great time to take a well-deserved vacation. Book a hotel room and plan to focus on nothing but each other. Order room service and don’t plan on leaving the bed anytime soon.

Summer New Deals: Sexy Outfits to Try

With a little extra time on your hands this summer, why not spice up your wardrobe? Take advantage of summer deals by grabbing some new lingerie and a sundress to wear over it. Later, surprise your partner with a little show as you reveal what’s underneath.

You could also pick out a flirty swimsuit and wear it confidently on your next beach day together. If you’re feeling adventurous, try roleplay with a summer twist. Maybe it’s a lifeguard rescuing a beachgoer, or a spontaneous summer fling with a “stranger.” The options are only limited by your imagination.

Do Let the Summer Go By Without a Little Fun

These are just a few activities to add to your summer bucket list if you want to keep things sexy and exciting this season.

If you’ve never tried any of these before, that’s even more reason to make this the summer you finally go for it. 

Step out of your comfort zone, create unforgettable memories, and bring a playful spark into your relationship. After all, summer is the perfect time to try new things, have a little fun, and get closer than ever with your partner.

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