Everything You Need to Know Before Buying Your First Vibrator

Shopping for your first vibrator can feel a bit daunting, but trust me, it can open up a whole new world of pleasure and self-discovery!

Since I started to use vibrators, one of my favorite things is the incredible variety that available today. They’re not all huge, penis-shaped things (but yeah, some are). My first was a tiny, 3-inch long plastic bullet vibrator by the 50 Shades of Gray toy brand. It was perfect! And despite its small size and simple one-button operation, it introduced me to a whole new range of sensations. Now I can’t get enough!

Vibrators are wonderful because they do so much more than fingers, penis, or even tongue can do. It is also no secret that most woman need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Vibrators are designed to make this as easy and as enjoyable as possible. Let’s face it, they nailed the design.

But then as a first-time buyer, a million questions rush into your head! Is it good quality? Is it too expensive? Is it easy to use? Will the packaging be discreet? What if I don’t like it!?? And all these questions are completely valid. We hope to help you make that first purchase with confidence, knowing that what you are buying can truly change your life for the better. And, just a tip, there are no wrong choices! I am sure that whatever you decide on will be perfect for you and will open the doors to a whole new world of experiences.

Find Out What You Enjoy

The first step is to get comfortable with your body, and for many, that means starting with finger play. And I get it—you might already be a pro at this and ready to upgrade to something with a bit more buzz. But if you are looking for a vibrating friend, you need to know your body first.

If this is your first time exploring masturbation, a great starting point is to gently rub your clitoris with one or two fingers. The entire area is super sensitive, and what feels amazing to you might be different from what feels great for someone else. A circular motion is a classic move that often works wonders. We always recommend using lube to make things smoother, but you might find that your natural lubrication is enough. 😉

You can also try inserting a couple of fingers into your vagina and curling them upwards toward your belly button. This can help you find your G-spot, which can be a real pleasure zone. It might take a few tries to hit the sweet spot, but you’ll know it when you do.

Taking this time to get to know your body may seem silly, but it is so important to know what you like before you shop. Ask Yourself: Do I like only my clitoris stimulated? Does it feel good when I rub my g-spot? Do I love both clit and g-spot stimulated at the same time?

Research and Reviews

Now that you have had some time to explore, you would have a better idea of what sensations you loved, and which ones weren’t for you just yet. Let’s be real though, you enjoyed them all, but some felt more amazing than others.

With the plethora of online shops available, finding your first sex toy can be both super easy and overwhelming. But don’t worry, there are plenty of reputable brands and stores out there like Satisfier, Wildflower, We-Vibe and Venus Fun (to name few) that offer top-quality toys. If you are feeling adventurous, you could check out a local adult store or, believe it or not, even Walmart carries a selection of toys.

Always buy from a trusted brand though! Whether you are buying directly from their website, from a store or even from Amazon. This way you can be sure that they will be good quality and made with safe materials. The best vibrators are made with body-safe silicone, so keep an eye out for that when shopping.

Once you find a toy you like, check out some reviews. We have a growing list of toy reviews, but feel free to look around online to see what others are saying. This can help you make an informed decision and find the perfect match for you.

Features to Consider

Waterproof

Do you want something that can be used in the tub or the shower? Trust me, this is a must in my opinion. Soaking in a warm bath after a long day with your vibe is AMAZING. Plus, it makes cleaning a breeze!

Type of Vibrators

There are several types of vibrators to choose from and I have made a list of some of the most common ones:

• Bullets: Small and perfect for pinpoint stimulation. These work especially well on the clitoris.

• Wands: These have a larger surface area and provide a wider, fuller and deeper sensation. Their vibrations are normally more rumbly than the bullet and as they have a large contact area, they stimulate the labia as well as the clitoris.

• Rabbits: These offer dual stimulation for the clitoris and G-spot, making them a popular choice for beginners.

• G-spot Massagers: These are designed for internal stimulation but can also be used externally on the clitoris, making them versatile.

• Thrusters: The name speaks for itself really and the thrusting motions that this toy gives are also combined with vibrations and are generally recommended for those with more experience. Be aware too, that these can be a little louder than the other toys mentioned.

• Suction Toys: These use suctions to ‘kiss’ the clit and range from soft and gentle to insanely powerful. These are the best for clitoral stimulation in my opinion, and are a personal favorite.

Vibration Settings

Some vibrators come with a variety of settings, but don’t feel like you need to go overboard. Often, the simplest settings are the most enjoyable. You can always start with basic vibrations and explore more complex patterns later.

Your First Vibe!

Now that you’ve got the basics down and have a good idea of what you’re looking for, it’s time to make that naughty purchase. If you know what exact toy you want and feel like splurging a little on it, go right on!

But if you’re still experimenting and not sure about your preferences, a more affordable option might be the way to go. After all, you don’t want to invest a lot of money into something you might not love. And remember too, if your first toy doesn’t quite hit the spot, it’s totally okay! You can always try a different one next week.

There’s no pressure, and the journey is all about discovering what feels best for you.