Gay Men’s Fantasies of 2025 Coax A Big Squirt

Squirt.org, self-declaring as “the best place to meet guys who are serious about hooking up and finding hot and horny hookups in just a few clicks,” has just released its annual Squirt Unloaded report. According to the site, this huge yearly fact gathering is regarded as a near bellwether for queer men’s behavior when searching/hooking up/and playing online.

Figuring through more than 100,000 data points of gay male and bisexual male interests and fantasies, as well as how they are influenced and are influencing pop culture, Squirt's report reveals data on the evolution of the adult industry as it relates to this specific population. With increases in group play, oral sex play rising in preference as a top fantasy and an overall gravitation to more connections marrying intensity to intimacy, these insights and more prove invaluable to makers and marketers of gay male/bi male visual content.

As least for those studios, producers and performers who indeed might pay attention to the data.

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Below is a list of the trends Squirt found most popular:

First of all, there are specific cities around the globe that are presently reporting a sharper definition of sexual identities. For instance, Sydney topped Squirt’s list as the city with the most male TOPS, while Los Angeles had a predominance of BOTTOMS. Chicago tops the list of US Cruising Cities, while Spain ranked as the #1 Cruising Country.

And, interestingly, the beginning of the usual workweek, Monday, comes up as the busiest cruising day worldwide.

As was true last year, “Daddy dominance” continued, and as mentioned above, group play was revealed on Squirt as the official most popular kink of 2025. Interestingly, this interaction tops BDSM, roleplay, leather, and exhibitionism, all usually very popular in the gay male bisexual male play.

Top porn categories watched in 2025 include Bareback, Orgy (which would seem to align with group play’s popularity), and Dom/Sub. Amateur and Public porn filmed content runs under these three in popularity for the past year.

And coming as no surprise, even for those not conversant in gay male porn or play, Lady Gaga remains gay men’s favorite musical artist.

Of course, any accumulation of these kinds of facts, surveys and polls in general, can be skewed to a bias.