How To Give A Lap Dance

Giving a lap dance is one of those special things that when done with enough confidence, charisma, and talent to your partner will absolutely melt underneath your touch.Remember it’s all in the hips so like any physical activity you’re going to want to stretch a little before deep diving into the powerful foreplay of a lap dance. 

The butterfly stretch is a great beginner stretch that will loosen your hip joints and make them more flexible for riding, gyrating, and grinding on your partner. A low lunge is another magical stretch that elongates your body and makes it more agile for action. 

After you’ve adequately warmed yourself up, it’s time to pick the perfect song. Some of my personal favorite jams include: 

• Talking Body by Tove Lo 

• Sit Next To Me by Foster the People

• Shook Me All Night By ACDC

While you don’t have to have a practiced lap routine down before you’re put on the main stage it is helpful to know a few moves if you suddenly get performance anxiety. For starters laying on the floor with your back arched is a good way to begin or start a number. Roll over on your belly and do a little two leg kick, and spring to the standing position with your hand trailing up your hip seductively.

Look your partner dead in the eye as you drop on your knees between their legs as they’re sat in front of you. Grab the collar of their shirt and slowly hoist yourself into their lap. This is where those loose hips come in handy.

Swivel those hips slowly, and find his dick to grind against. Start with slow tender nudges, then get more aggressive as the music crescendos.
Keep in mind this mantra: “I am the divine feminine. I am hot. I am sexy. And this person is turning into a puddle from my touch.”

Don’t get in your head because that’s what kills the sexy vibes. Focus on the pheromones your partner is giving off and the beat of the music as your body does what comes naturally.

After your man is absolutely bulging and hard under your touch, flip around and give him a view of your fat ass. Make that shit jiggle as you bounce and gyrate to your heart’s content. Try to time your bounces to the beat of the music. But don’t worry too much about it because this guy is just lucky that you’ve decided on him as your victim for this sexual dance. 

Honestly, the best lap dances come from whatever feels the most natural in the moment, and will be whatever vibe you want to make it.

If you and your partner are into edging, give them a lap dance and leave them hard, erect, and wanting more. Don’t give them the satisfaction of coming to completion. You hold the power you divine goddess. Wield it at your discretion.