How to Suck Dick: The Art of Giving Good Blowjobs

So you want to be great at sucking dick? Buckle up because you’re about to become the oral expert your partner never knew they needed. Whether you're looking to learn how to suck dick for the first time or you just wanna improve your game, this guide will transform you from hesitant head-giver to cock-sucking connoisseur in no time.

Let’s get one thing out of the way first: when you suck a dick, your enthusiasm will be your greatest weapon. Nothing - and I mean NOTHING - turns someone on more than a partner who’s genuinely excited about having a dick in their mouth. Even if you’re still figuring out the technicalities, approaching it with an “I can’t wait to eat your soul” attitude will already put you ahead of 90% of the competition.

Think of it this way: would you rather have a mediocre massage from someone who’s totally into giving it or a technically perfect massage from someone checking their watch every five minutes?

Exactly.

Hygiene Check, Please!

Look, we’re all adults here. Genitals have smells, and that’s natural. But there’s a difference between “musky arousal” and “I just ran a marathon in these boxers.” If cleanliness is an issue, suggest jumping in the shower together as foreplay - nothing sets the mood like soaping up each other’s naked bodies!

The Art of the Tease

Don’t just go face-first into their crotch like you’re bobbing for apples. The buildup is half the fun! You can kiss and lick your way down his body, reeeaaallly slowly. Breathe hot air through his underwear while keeping eye contact. Slowly unwrap his package like it’s the gift you’ve been waiting for all year.

Just when you’re about to get very close, back away with a devilish smile, trace your fingers along the inside of his thighs, getting closer but never quite there. By the time you actually put him in your mouth, he should be practically begging for it.

How to suck dick properly comes down to mastering a few key techniques. Start with the tried-and-tested crowd-pleaser, the lick and swirl. Using the flat part of your tongue, give broad, wet licks from base to tip, then swirl your tongue around the head. Pay special attention to the frenulum (that ridged area on the underside where the head meets the shaft) since this is basically his pleasure button.

Next, you can wrap your lips over your teeth (super important!) and slide them over the head, creating a seal. The pressure difference will feel amazing to him. If your mouth is tired, you can use a hand-mouth combo. Your mouth doesn’t need to do all the work. Wrap your hand around the base of his shaft and move it in sync with your mouth. This’ll feel incredible to him and will save your jaw from fatigue. Pro tip: twist your hand slightly as you stroke to give him that extra sensation.

If you want to take it a notch higher, swirl your tongue around the head while simultaneously twisting your hand around the shaft in the opposite direction. The contrasting sensations will short-circuit his brain in the best way.

You can even experiment with your voice by humming. While he’s in your mouth, make a humming sound. The vibrations travel through his shaft and can feel really incredible. Lastly, don't forget the balls! Lick, kiss, and nibble on them. While using your mouth on his head, use your fingers to gently caress or apply slight pressure to the area between his balls and anus (the perineum). This indirectly stimulates his prostate and can intensify everything.

So you want to get to legendary status and learn how to deep throat? It’s basically the Mount Everest of sucking dick; impressive when conquered, but definitely not required for an amazing experience.

Let’s get one thing straight first: deepthroating is not for everyone, and it’s not necessary for mind-blowing oral. But if you really want to do it, here are some tips:

1. Train your throat. You can use a toothbrush to reach the back of your tongue and hold it there for a few seconds. Over time, you’ll be able to calm down your gag reflex.
2. Get into position. The right angle will make all the difference. Try lying on your back with your head hanging slightly off the edge of your bed, creating a straighter path down your throat so you can accommodate more length.
3. Breathe through your nose, really slow and rhythmically. If you panic or hold your breath, your throat will tense up.
4. Start small and then gradually build and work deeper with each bob of your head. As he reaches the back of your mouth, do a swallowing motion. This relaxes your throat muscles and can help ease past your gag point.
5. If you gag, don’t be embarrassed. You should have a non-verbal tap-out system, which signals that you need a break or stop.
6. Place your hand around the base of his shaft to control the depth. As you get more comfortable, you can move your hand away to allow deeper access.

Jaw fatigue happens when you’re trying to do your best at sucking dick. When your mouth needs a break, focus on the tip for a while and use your hands on the shaft. You can switch to licking and kissing the shaft and balls, too. Maybe even pull back and use your tongue to tease the head.

Have some lube ready and give him an enthusiastic hand job for a minute. If you’re going to go back at it again, try switching positions to give your neck and jaw a break.

Your partner’s body will tell you everything you need to know about what’s working. If his breathing gets faster and shallow, keep doing exactly what you’re doing. Notice his hips rising to meet your mouth? That’s his body literally reaching for more of that incredible sensation you’re creating.

If his hands gently rest on your head, guiding your movements, follow his lead. He’s showing you exactly what he needs. And if he moans, gasps, or is getting creative with his cursing, that means you’re doing something right.

Now that you have a good idea of how to give a good oral, it’s time for the finale. Once you figure out what he likes, keep doing that, maintaining the same pressure, speed, and technique until he’s trembling on the edge of exploding.

As he approaches climax, you’ll notice his muscles tensing, breathing becoming erratic, perhaps even a slight trembling in his thighs. This is your cue to maintain absolute consistency in whatever magic you’re doing. Don’t speed up, don’t slow down, don’t suddenly change pressure - just keep giving him that perfect sensation. His body is building a wave of pleasure that needs steady stimulation.

When he finally does cum, you’ll feel the rhythmic pulses and contractions as he releases. Stay with him through the orgasm, gradually easing up on the pressure as he comes down from peak. He’ll be sensitive by then, so avoid any firm pressure or suction. Gentle licks and kisses are enough to extend his pleasure.

Whether you swallow, spit, or finish with your hands is entirely up to you. If you’re down to swallow, many partners find it incredibly hot. If not, he can finish on other parts of you. Communication is key here. A simple "where do you want to cum?" whispered at the right moment can be incredibly sexy.

Learning how to suck dick well isn't just about technical skill - it’s about being present, enthusiastic, and genuinely enjoying the experience yourself. When you approach it with playfulness and desire rather than obligation, you can transform it from a mechanical act into an art form.

Happy sucking!