Hey Little Freak Bobs,

Welcome to the inside scoop on fucking, fetishization, and foreplay because we all know that you can’t keep your dick in your pants, or that wet pussy on a leash. Today we will be discussing the most popular sexual fetishes, and I know your hands are probably already down your pants as you're reading this, you freakazoid.

Let's talk about the second pillar in the F triangle of pleasure: fetishes. Having a fetish basically means that you have a sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object, activity, or body part other than the sexual organs. Let’s get into exploring the most popular sexual fetishes that people have, and what they mean.

Have you ever heard of the guy that fucked and married his car? While this may seem extreme, this is just one facet of the weird and wonderful world of fetishes.

You may not be too keen to fuck the exhaust pipe of your car, but maybe you want to role play a different age during sex or are interested in mixing eroticism and food, let’s dive into the delicious details of fetishism.

What is Age Play?

Age play looks different for every couple, but it typically involves adults roleplaying as different ages. Some people like to be called “baby” during intercourse, and can slip into a certain headspace known as “little space” or “middle space”  where they can explore things associated with the age they are mimicking whether that be diapers, pacifiers, or coloring with crayons.

 In turn, partners can act as “bigs” where they take the traditional ‘adult’ role in the relationship (it is still two consenting adults), who identify as a mommy dom or daddy dom. The dominant (dom) partner tends to showcase nurturing tendencies toward their submissive (sub) partner, whether that be by taking care of them, or setting clear boundaries and rules that they must follow when in their little space. 

People that participate in age play can do so in either a sexual or non sexual way. For some, it is a lifestyle choice, while others find themselves aroused at the thought of “daddy” fucking them. 

From my personal experience, age play isn’t necessarily a result of mommy/daddy issues. Instead, it offers a way for people to feel gently taken care of while remaining in a childlike idyllic state. It’s an escape from reality to simpler times where your dom will take care of you, just the way you need. 

Instead of wearing a diaper, you may be interested in used underwear to go hog wild on. That’s chill I got you covered panty muncher. 

Underwear Fetishism

Underwear fetishism is a common fetish, where people enjoy, rubbing, licking, biting, and smelling used underwear for sexual stimulation. I get it, when my boyfriend gets home from the gym, I love getting all up in that ballsack grease and smelling his pheromones. 

If you’re gonna get nasty with it, you better commit. Don’t be embarrassed by your midnight craving for some dirty panties, shove that shit in your face and get to sniffing. There are some rules for your underwear fetish: 

1. Don’t panty raid someone’s drawers.

2. Make sure your partner is ok with you using their underwear for this purpose.

3. Take proper precautions and thoroughly wash yourself after you get down and dirty with it.

From admiring what's underneath to admiring from afar, there are certain kinks that are not so discreet.

Voyeurism; Oh I Didn’t See You There

Let’s sing it together, 

“Before you act, you need consent,

That's what respect has always meant.

Don't be the creep who hides away,

Respect others every single day."

This is especially true when it comes to voyeurism, which is when someone gets aroused by watching other people have sex. This is nonconsensual, and definitely not ok, but when it's done between consenting adults it can actually be a magical experience. 

There’s something thrilling about touching yourself while you watch people get it on in front of you. This fetish is seen in a myriad of films and television. More recently, the show, You, had elements of voyeurism when main character Joe, touched himself while peering through the window of his love interest, Beck’s house as she masturbated (stalker alert). Communication is key, talk to your partner about your voyeurism fantasy and you can role play whatever your heart desires. 

Trying to learn more about the fetish? Read our guide on it!

Maybe you're more of a tactile lover than a visual one. I get it, it's fun to feel, taste, and smell all the delicious parts of your partner as you ravage them. This next yummy fetish may be for you.

Sitophilia

Sitophilia, also known as a food fetish, is a more common fetish than most people realize. Since the beginning of time, certain foods have been hailed as aphrodisiacs where they stimulate sexual desire when eating. 

Greek God Dionysus was a slut for munching on grapes, whipping his dick around in honor of fertility and good times. Sitophilia is not far off, instead of using food merely for the appetizer of sex, it can become the main course. 

One example that comes to mind is the YouTube tutorial for grapefruiting a dick. What I love about this tutorial is that it is a tasty way to suck dick, that is both pleasurable for the giver and receiver. What you do is cut a piece of a grapefruit off and slice a hold in the middle of it. From there you place it on the head of a penis, and drag it up and down as you simultaneously suck on the hog. For more advanced food play, Pornhub has some great viewing options, where people eat ice cream off their toes and lick whip cream off their pussy, the possibilities are endless. 

Just some food for thought.

Vorarephilia 

Speaking of eating things, it is a great transition into our next fetish, vorarephilia. Typically this fetish is shortened to “vore” and is described as someone being sexually aroused by the idea of being absorbed into someone or consumed by them. It's like Jeffrey Dahmer, but in a sexy way. This fetish actually isn’t that popular, but I wanted to throw it in for those niche fetish fans to feel seen 😃. Those that have vorarephilia fantasies can either fantasize about being the consumer or prey in this situation. Since this cannot actually be done without hurting someone, most vorarephilia participants use it as a form of sexual role play by sketching out their fantasies on paper, making videos, or complex storylines to get off. 

Vorarephilia can serve as a creative outlet for individuals drawn to predator and prey dynamics. By expressing these interests through art and written fantasies, people can explore these themes in a safe, non-harmful way. This represents how niche interests can be channeled into socially acceptable forms of creative expression that don't pose risks to others.

Curious to learn more? Check out our post on vore.

Moving from the complex fantasy realm of vorarephilia to more straightforward physical attractions, foot fetishes offer an interesting contrast in how fetishes can manifest.

Foot Fetish; Sole for the Soul

Podophilia, is a foot fetish, and is one of the most common fetishes that people have. It is pretty self explanatory, but it basically means that someone is sexually aroused by either the sight, smell, or texture of a foot. If you’re part of the BDSM community, and have a foot fetish, you may be familiar with the term ‘trampling’. This is where the submissive partner lays down, and the dominant one sticks a foot on the head of the sub to push their face down in an act of power. Even if you're not into the whole pleasure and pain dynamic, foot fetishes offer an array of sexual activities that you and your partner can try out.

• Toe sucking is a popular form of foreplay for many couples.

• Stroking your partner’s penis with your toes can be a sexy moment.

• If you are new to the foot fetish clique, start off small with a nice foot massage with your partner, and see where it takes you. 

Final Thoughts 

The world of fetishes offer endless possibilities for you and your partner(s) to reach new heights in your sexual exploration of one another. It is perfectly normal to be aroused by your surroundings, but it is imperative to have open and clear communication with all parties involved in playing out your fetish fantasies. Make sure to have fun, be safe, and get your freak on. For more content like this make sure to check out ToyChats.com, your playbook for mind blowing sex.