Talking with Stella Lagneia: Amateur Pornstar Turned Fleshlight

We sat down with Stella Lagneia, an amateur content creator who's been making big waves in the toy industry. Her Fleshlight Pro is a surprising addition to the best-selling sex toys of 2025.

So naturally, we wanted to learn more.

Here's our conversation with Ms. Lagneia:

Hi Stella, so nice to meet you! We wanted to ask some questions. Let's get started.

Is it fun for you to suck dildos?

Deepthroating (dildos) are one of my true passions. It was the first thing I did sexually and I have always had such good associations doing it. The tactile feeling is wonderful and i sexercise every day! There are so many sexy dildos to try and deepthroating dildos is a sexcellent way to keep up sexcitment, improve your skill (for the real thing) to keep your partner happy :) I can never get enough of it and think about it many times a day.

Tell us what glory hole training is? We checked your site and saw that it is something on the calendar.

My Glory Hole Training is a way for me to develop my passion and sexcite me (and my partners) even more. I have even built a glory hole training corner in my bedroom! No matter if it's with a dildo or the real thing, Glory Hole Training fuels my fantasy a lot: Who is on the other side? What does he like? How much is he going to cum? My fantasy can run wild and I can truly recommend it to spice up your own sex life or together with partners. There are so many cumbinations! One can have more than one glory hole, one can do it together with someone (sucking together or taking care of several at the same time). For those who prefer privacy it can be a perfect way to let go without feeling shy. One can find different positions for sex, not only dep throating. You can try new cumbinations! Building your own glory hole corner can be a wonderful and easy way to get your partner(s) going for a nice surprise. (One can even invite a passionate friend without telling and have your partner enjoy it.) With that said, for me personally, Glory Hole Training is not about serving unknown persons, but a way to refine your skill, try new cumbinations and keep things on the edge.

Where did you get your start in the sex industry?

I got my start in the sex industry during covid lockdown in 2020. Like so many, I had a lot of time and I wanted to take the time to sexplore my sexuality and create something to share. I loved it ever since!

What projects are you up to now?

My latest project is THE WHORIENT SEXPRESS, a weekly kinky story with pictures and videos inspired by the 1920s Orient Express. Each week is a new episode, the mystery unfolds and everyone who joins the fun can meet a new girl every week. This is a great way for me to combine storytelling with cosplay and a touch of class and mystery. I usually create a special story for my followers, fans and friends every year. Since it is a journey, one can join at any station and each wagon contains a special kink, so one can find a favourite. There is also a new fresh cosplay style every week, and all the different girls are a part of the story.

On top of that I am now preparing for my next cumpaign: SWALLOWEEN with the theme "Scaring is Caring" :) It is based on one of my absolute passions: Cum play and Cum swallowing/drinking. I jokingly call my self a "saliromaniac" (from the kink term "Saliromania") with the meaning that I have a tru passion for tactile feelings, taste and smell. I call it "Touch & Taste of Love". I find deepthroating together with the wet feeling over my face and body REALLY turn me on! Can never get enough and that is what truly get me going. So SWALLOWEEN is a kinky spooky story (without ghosting) based on the horror movie "The NuN". This session is a part of my COCKTOBER FEST, that is all about cum play and cum drinking. "The wetter the better" as the saying goes!

I am also filming 10 episodes of FALLOUT (a very popular Netflix series for those of you who don't know it. I think it was the second most popular with more than 100 M+ viewers. I was one of them and love it!) Since the 2nd season starts on the 17th of December, I am just starting a 10 week "warm up" series. In my story I am locked inside my vault, waiting for someone to find me (and play with me), and broadcasting online after the "disaster".

The really funny thing is that it has a real connection: I had my profile for 5 years at Fancentro with thousands of followers, fans and friends. Pornhub was buying the platform this summer; the transition was not well made - it wiped out ALL my cuntent and everything for my fans! It was a true "digital disaster" and some of my fans almost cried, having lost 5 years of chat logs, birthday greetings, special videos etc. It took weeks to get a reply and I had to re-start and re-create all my work (!) Only 0.2% of my fan base was left! It took months of work to start to rebuild everything and I am still doing it! (I was not the only creator that was unlucky; it taught me how important it is to have back ups and be on several platforms.) Since it was a true "digital disaster" I got the idea to turn it into something funny and start to try to find all my followers and fans again. If anyone of you are reading this, feel free to connect again!

How do you prepare for scenes, both physically and mentally?

5. I usually prepare my sessions by listening to music, fixing my make up and preparing my dress codes. With such a ritual I always feel mentally and physically well prepared and I try to keep it sexciting my finding new cumbinations or situations. I always think of my sex scenes in a context, even if I film alone.

If you could change one thing about the industry, what would it be?

6. If I could change one thing in the industry (and in general) it would be for everyone to stop being ashamed of your sexuality! Be proud of yourself, your body, who you are :) Just like with food we all have our own favorites and there is so much to try. Everybody is different and we should celebrate it, not be afraid of it.

How do you feel about having your own Fleshlight? How was it like to make one?

7. To have my own Fleshlight Pro Collection is such a big turn on for me! I always had fantasies of being a sex doll/sex robot or being used as a sex toy. (I guess that fantasy is about relaxing and letting go of control). Now the dream is true and my followers, fans and friends can now share that feeling! I hope they can let go, relax, have fun, enjoy a tactile sensation and try all of me :) What amazed me most is how accurate a Fleshlight is, the 3D modeling and 3D printing is almost 100%. (I verified it by taking pictures from different angles and putting them as a layer of my real pics. It is identical.) I was just happy to be selected as a Fleshlight model (3 months ago) and had no sexpectations: I was delighted to see that I skyrocketed to become the 3rd most popular Fleshlight Pro within a month!

I am so grateful for everyone enjoying me; the reviews online are fantastic and many send pictures of videos of how they enjoy me. That REALLY turns me on! (Please keep on sending lol) In return I send pictures and videos back of how I enjoy watching them while playing with myself. So, on top of my other interactive toys for play, Fleshlight has become a new source of sexcitment and inspiration to model even more. We have chats on Reddit about it so my fans can talk directly to me and it feels like a thing we do together. I am also so proud to see that many guys who had followed me for years, but not yet tried a Fleshlight, were getting it! You should not feel shy about your own sexuality and it's nothing wrong to have a sexy copy of your favorite model. Sex should be fun! :)

Any more plans for your own sex toys in the future?

My dream is to create a torso of myself and my ultimate dream to have a full sex doll copy of me - and having fans try me and the toy/doll at the same time and film it! That is my kinky dream! I am still trying to find out who can do it, so if anyone reading this and knows how, feel free to let me know!

Are you just doing amateur work or more stuff?

I am a true Asian amateur and just do this for fun and to share my passion!

What do you wanna tell the audience?

I would like to say THANK YOU to your readers, my followers, fans and friends for enjoying and supporting my passion. By sharing it I hope I will sexcite and inspire and do my part to make sex more fun! We are all in this together, and my true dream would be to invite all lovely fans to a mega blow bang or gang bang and make me a bukkake girl :D Can't help but love it, and sharing is truly caring! I respect everyone who does not want it, but hope as many of us as possible can share and exchange sex and fantasies as we do with other things. This little interview and Toy Chats work is helping with that. Let's have fun together and try (or even be) all new toys to find our favorites. Thank you for taking the time to read this and interview me, always feel free to get in touch!

Thanks to Stella!

This interview was a ton of fun. Check out Stella's free page on FetLife along with her Fansly.