The Virginity Exchange on Reddit: The Horny Side of the Internet
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Reddit, coined “the heart of the internet,” is the hub for community building and content sharing. Over ten years ago, a subreddit community titled the Virginity Exchange was created to give virgin horn dawgs a chance to shine. Here’s how it works:
Users post on the subreddit with information about themselves like: age, location, basic facts, and the type of relationships they are seeking.
They then wait as others on the site size them up to see if their dick is worthy of some pounding.
It is like the OG version of Tinder, but for virgins.
What the Virginity Exchange on Reddit Represents
In today’s social landscape, virginity has become a negative construct of society’s woven fabric. It’s either politicized, upheld by religion, or seen as a badge of loserhood for the few that can’t get pussy. While it is totally ok not to go to pound town (shoutout asexuals), if you want sex so badly you’re turning to the internet to stick your dick in something just know you’re not alone.
Dicks and pussies are meant to be fucked, sucked, and shucked. Even though it may be hard for some to understand the social isolation and loneliness that comes from lack of intimacy, it is the most human thing in the world to want closeness with another person. Some of the anecdotes on the site exemplify the rawness of yearning, and how loneliness can metastasize throughout the mind, body, and spirit.
This can be seen in authentic declarations of desire where some users claim they have ”been lurking in this subreddit for quite some time now and decided to muster up [the] courage and make this post. That being said, [they] feel like it’s time to break out of [their] shell and move forward with this…”
Men vs. Women on this Subreddit
Posts also tend to skew in favor of males. And while most of these men just want their cocks sucked, it still remains striking how many of these posts simply require the person to be 18 or older.
This is concerning because being 18 is just the bare minimum legal requirement. People should value themselves enough to seek partners who are genuinely kind, authentic, and with whom they can form a real connection, rather than focusing solely on age eligibility. Think about it like this: its basically saying that a person will fuck anybody willing to give up their hole for a dicking down. There are a plethora of ways that a person can get a pussy that doesn't involve begging for vagina on the internet. With subreddit communities like the Virginity Exchange, it raises questions about why so much online dating content seems catered to the male gaze. Foaming at the mouth for some pussy can scare off potential partners.
Traditional dating platforms offer a more authentic environment for discussing intimacy because users provide their real names and photos. Reddit, by contrast, can feel impersonal and isolating due to its anonymous nature. One female user reported being overwhelmed with private messages from all the men on the subreddit.
Final Thoughts
The users flooding these forums aren't just seeking physical release or romantic connection. They're desperately trying to prove their worth in a culture that has convinced them their inexperience makes them fundamentally unfuckable. We've created a world where virginity isn't just a personal milestone, instead it's a scarlet letter in a society obsessed with sexual performance.
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