So, you’re thinking about sex blogging with your partner?

When most couples bond over Netflix binges or argue about where to order takeout, you’ve chosen to turn your bedroom adventures into prose. Bold. Spicy. Educational (kind of). And potentially hilarious.

What is a Sex Blog?

A sex blog is a space online where someone—or even a couple!—writes about all things sexy. It could be super personal, like a juicy story about the best sex they’ve ever had, a steamy fantasy they dreamed up, or even a hilariously awkward moment in bed.

Some folks use it to review their favorite sex toys and give honest feedback for anyone curious to try them. Whether you’re into storytelling, education, or just want to share your adventures, there are so many fun reasons to start a sex blog, solo or with your partner!

Why Start a Sex Blog?

There are so many reasons why you should start a sex blog with your partner. You can learn each other’s writer's voice. Perhaps your partner is a poetic genius when describing foreplay. It then becomes not just what happens in bed but about you telling the tale. Thinking long and hard on the descriptive worlds. Was it mind-blowing, intense, skin-crawling? It forces you to reflect on your sex life. Next step is talking about how to spice it up. Once comfortable you then fall into a routine of fun time!

But Also... Expect These Mishaps 

Fair warning: you might end up arguing about grammar. Picture it—

“Babe, you seriously can’t use the word moist three times in one sentence.”

“Oh, but I can.”

You’ll probably end up rewriting (a lot), compromising on word choice, and laughing way more than expected. But hey—those rewrites might be comedy gold.

And don’t fall into the classic trap: you get so caught up taking notes, setting the mood lighting, and trying to be all artsy… you forget to actually have sex. Oops.

Start Something New!

Sex blogging as a duo isn’t just hot— can be extremely intimate. You’ll grow closer, laugh harder, and probably have the best sex of your life (even if some of it ends up off the page).

So grab your lube, your laptop, and your lover. Open your computer and let the world enjoy your journey. 

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