Hello My Little Cum Guzzlers 😈, 

I am going to get straight to the point, being a Dominatrix is sexy, sleek, and oh so naughty. If you don’t know what the term Dominatrix means, that’s ok, put on your learning glasses 🤓 because we’re going to deep dive into it. 

The term Dominatrix is ancient, dating back to 1555. Originating from Latin, Dominatrix, is a combination of the word dominate (to rule) and the feminine suffix called trix. In the current day, we consider a Dominatrix as a woman who takes the lead during sex, and assumes the dominant role in BDSM. 

We’re all familiar with BDSM tactics, but some of us may not know all the tools and toys that are used to toe that tantalizing line between pleasure and pain. Here is your guide to everything Dominatrix-related to make your sub scream for mercy as you show them who’s in charge. 

Teasing Tools 

If you want to tease your partner into submission there are some practical things you can do to set the stage. 

• Maybe your partner wants to worship you like a goddess, allow them to by giving them your feet to kiss as they grovel on the ground.  

• Cock and ball bondage is a great tool for your sub if they have a penis because they can’t fully get hard as their intimate parts are locked up and constricted. 

• Control their orgasms and bring them to the edge of a climax without letting them tip over.

• Shut your little brat up with a gag ball which renders them speechless while you tease them senseless. 

• Get some restraints or handcuffs to tie your sub to the bed as you make them edge, taunting a climax until they buck under your touch.  

Submission Tools 

Now that your partner is teased, you gotta tame them in bed to make them submit. Here is how you make them break under your command:

• Asserting your dominance starts way before getting in the sheets. One tool for getting your sub to know who is in charge is wearing high heels to demonstrate your power over them.

• Body clamps are used on different parts of the body to elicit pain, most popular are nipple clamps as the areolas are sensitive to pressure. 

• Get your little fuck doll a collar to show ownership. You own them in the bedroom, and they better know it. Collars can be tightened for choking and restraint play. 

Ouch That Hurts, I Think I Like It Though 

Impact toys are a great way to urge your partner into submission especially when they’re giving you attitude and acting bratty. If you want to administer a solid smack down many doms use a paddle, flog, or baton which can result in an endorphin release or emotional catharsis on part of the sub as their body undergoes a beating. 

If your sub likes a good sting, try opting for a whip, cane, dragon tongue, or a good ol’ spanking will do the trick. What is nice about spanking your partner is you have more control over the speed and intensity of your hits. This is paramount if your sub is new to the BDSM world, and are still establishing boundaries for what they like and dislike in terms of pain and pleasure. 

Some Dominatrixs go as far as incorporating role play into their BDSM practices. That can look like the following:

• Acting out Teacher and Student 

• Punishment Play

• Knife Play

• Sensory Deprivation

• Consensual non consent sex 

• Cuckholding

Tell them all the ways they’ve been naughty, and how you will punish them for it. Make them fully devoted to you by denying pleasure when they are close to climaxing. Have them edge again and again until they can’t see straight, and as a reward you can let them orgasm on you 💦.

This just scratches the surface of BDSM play as a Dominatrix, if you’re interested in learning more about this subject drop a comment and I will write another article going more in depth about it. Just remember consent and communication is key for exploring your Dominatrix side, make sure your sub is happy and taken care of at all times. For more information about the best Dominatrix tools and impact toys feel free to check out ToyChats.com.