Play It Safe: The Ultimate Guide to Fun and Healthy Toy Play

Let’s be real for a second—sex toys are amazing, but they can’t exactly clean themselves, can they? No matter how much fun you have, they need a little TLC to keep everything running smoothly. And let’s not forget, your body deserves just as much care. So, if you want to keep your playtime as exciting and healthy as possible, it’s time to add a little safety to the mix. Whether you're playing solo or sharing the moment with a partner, knowing how to care for your toys—and your body—will take your pleasure to the next level.

Ready to make sure your playtime stays safe, healthy, and even more fun?  Here’s the 411 you need.

When it comes to sex toys, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. The key to both pleasure and safety is selecting a toy that suits your needs, preferences, and body. Look for options made from body-safe materials like silicone, stainless steel, or glass. These materials are non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean, which minimizes the risk of irritation. 

Always avoid toys with phthalates or harmful chemicals. If you’re new to toys or trying something different, start simple. A medium-sized, silicone vibrator or a smooth, non-intimidating dildo is a great choice to explore without overwhelming yourself. As you get more comfortable, you can experiment with different shapes, sizes, and materials.

Pro Tip: Whether you're a beginner or experienced, make sure the toy’s size and shape align with your comfort level. If you’re unsure, start with a small to medium-sized option and build from there.

Let’s face it, cleaning your toys isn’t glamorous, but it's essential for both your health and the longevity of your toys. Proper cleaning ensures bacteria, dirt, and oils don’t stick around and cause problems. Always wash your toys before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or wipe them down with a toy-specific cleaner. Make sure to dry them thoroughly, especially if they’re made of porous materials.

Pro Tip: For rechargeable toys, make sure the charging ports are dry before plugging them in. This avoids damage and keeps things running smoothly.

Lubrication is your best friend during toy play. It reduces friction and makes everything more comfortable, no matter what you’re playing with. Just make sure to choose a lube that’s compatible with your toy. For silicone toys, avoid silicone-based lubes, as they can break down the material. Water-based lubes are a safe bet for most toys.

Pro Tip: If you're exploring anal play, use a thicker lube to ensure maximum comfort and control. You always want that smooth glide for maximum comfort and pleasure.

Toys can be a blast, but it’s important to listen to your body. If something feels uncomfortable or too intense, don’t push through it. Adjust the pressure, angle, or speed—or take a break. Prolonged play can lead to soreness or overstimulation, so take care of yourself.

Pro Tip: For beginners, take things slow and gradually increase intensity. You’ll enjoy the experience even more and avoid discomfort along the way.

Proper storage protects both your toys and your health. Store them in a cool, dry place to prevent damage, and make sure they’re always ready for your next session. Some toys come with storage bags, but if yours doesn’t, use a dust-free pouch or container. Keep toys separate to prevent materials from interacting and possibly degrading them.

Pro Tip: Avoid storing your toys in direct sunlight—it can degrade materials like silicone and rubber.

Before every session, inspect your toys. Are they in good condition? Any cracks, tears, or other signs of wear and tear? A damaged toy is not only a mood killer but can also be a health risk. Don’t hold on to a toy that's seen better days.

Pro Tip: If you notice any strange smells, discoloration, or unusual textures, it’s time to part ways with that toy. Your body deserves better!

Caring for your toys and your body isn’t just about safety—it’s about setting yourself up for a good time every time. When you take the time to maintain your toys and listen to your body, you’re ensuring every play session is smooth, satisfying, and stress-free.