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Plundering Your Depths; The 3 Main Factors To Consider With Anal Play

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Be they a ‘string’ of anal beads or some hearty strap-on dildo you lovingly dare you lover to receive there are lots of ways to enjoy anal play…especially if you are looking for something more than a finger or a tongue for stimulation. When it comes down to buying a toy for backdoor fun, be it solo or with a partner, here are the three main few factors to consider with anal play.

1: First Time?

As with any new sexual activity we might get into, alone or with a lover, anal play (especially anal play), should engender slow, inch-by-inch exploration. There are toys made specifically for first time anal explorers as well as plenty of tutorials online to help the novice foray forward. First timers should certainly be aware of size first and foremost (objects in your personal rearview mirror will certainly be difficult, in fact harmful to take, if they are too big or wide) and as anyone enjoying anal sex of any kind should…use lots and lots of lube!

2. Trying to Tickle The Sides or Bottom?

According to scientific study and reporting of the subject of anal sexual stimulation, there are thousands of nerve endings in the anus with many in particularly concentrated in certain areas. Given this, there are many ways to give and get pleasure from anal play and therefore a wide variety of toys to achieve this end (pardon the pun); smaller anal beads that can be slowly extracted for stimulating “pops,” long rectum invaders for deep planting that surely lead to lots of panting.

Even a little mini plug or could be introduced to train the anus to be more pliable and receptive to future play.

Again, please use lots of lube.

3. Pegging is on the rise!

Plenty of women strap-on for a right pegging of their guy on a semi regular basis, as still others might fit themselves into a harness and fake cock merely to adopt a dominant pose over a man as sometimes an actual deep ass-fucking is not as important in the couple’s play as the threat of one. Either way, ‘pegging’ implied or executed, is surely something that’s been on the rise in the hetero couple community across the last decade in a way very few activities have been.

Again, considerations here have to be made for how experienced partners are (or if one is less or more than the other) just what the pegger and peggie wants (and they should consent that it’s the same thing) a deep right rooting or a ‘just-the-tip’ teasing.

Whatever it is…now more than ever before anal play is on the rise in porn, bedrooms and considerations. So, wanting it, or even thinking about it, for us all, seems a natural evolution of human sexual interests.

Again though, no matter how hard, often or whatever you use in your anal sex fun, remember these factors…and the lube!

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