Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit Review

Design

The Take Control Bondage Kit presents with a clean, approachable aesthetic that balances playful and serious nicely. The color scheme is classic mainly black with subtle hardware accents giving it a sexy yet understated feel. The inclusion of a broad variety of piece from under-bed restraints to a ball gag, blindfold, flogger, nipple suckers, and a strap-on harness with dildo makes this kit feel like a full introductory BDSM toolbox rather than a single novelty item. What struck me most was how the design managed to feel both adventurous and accessible. The under-mattress strap system turns an ordinary bed into a four-poster-style play zone without needing built-in frames, which is clever for many users working with normal bedrooms.

The blindfold and ball gag are compact and non-intimidating. The strap-on harness is universal with interchangeable O-rings, meaning the set is designed to be inclusive and flexible. In short: The design works well for its purpose. It doesn’t scream high-luxury, but it also doesn’t feel cheap or generic. The shapes, choice of items, and layout give the impression of a kit that was thoughtfully assembled for couples or beginners keen to explore power-play or bondage dynamics.

Quality

When it comes to build and materials, the kit delivers a solid beginner/intermediate quality level. According to independent reviews, many items feel comfortable and sufficiently made, though some components show clear limitations. For example, the blindfold has thick padding and stretches to fit most people. The ball gag is breathable with adjustment and silicone parts that feel hygienic. The under-bed restraints, in practical use, have the strength and flexibility typical of nylon webbing systems.

That said some of the cuffs in the kit are noted as being less sturdy. One review pointed out that the wrist/ankle cuffs are nylon with minimal padding, meaning they can chafe if pressure is applied. In my hands, the strap-on harness and silicone dildo component felt reassuring in weight and finish, with good firmness for purpose. The flogger is light but functional, and the ball gag hardware felt secure. Overall, the quality is appropriate for the price and purpose not premium “pro gear,” but definitely fit for purpose for exploration.

Experience

Using the kit, the experience is versatile and fun, with a great mix of restraint, sensation, and role-play potential. Setting up the under-bed straps transforms an ordinary mattress into a bondage frame, which immediately ups the anticipation and energy of the scene. The blindfold adds sensory deprivation, heightening the other sensations, and the nipple suckers provide mild but noticeable sensation changes without being intimidating. The strap-on/dildo portion allowed couples to shift into pegging or mutual play smoothly, thanks to the universal harness and compatible dildo. That flexibility makes the kit usable for different dynamics and orientations. One reviewer said: “On the whole, the Take Control Bondage Kit is a very solid basic BDSM set for the price.”

There are a couple of caveats: While the items function well, they don’t all excel. For example, the cuffs may lack the plush comfort of high-end leather, and the bullet vibrator included (if present) may feel less powerful than standalone models. But for many couples aiming to explore without big investment, the experience is more than adequate and often very enjoyable.

Performance

Summary of Performance:

Strong Performers: Under-bed restraint system, strap-on harness + dildo, flogger & sensation tools.

Satisfactory Performers: Ball gag, wired bullet vibrator (good but not stellar).

Weaker Areas: Wrist/ankle cuffs and blindfold – acceptable but less robust for advanced scenes.

Overall performance: very good for entry to intermediate level bondage play. The kit delivers versatility, functionality, and cohesive use of components. Durability and comfort in a few items are its only moderate limitations.

Materials and care

Materials across the kit include silicone (for the dildo), nylon webbing (for straps), faux/fabric padding (for blindfold and cuffs), and metal hardware/clips. As with many beginner kits, the materials are fit for purpose but not the highest-end. One review noted the cuffs could benefit from more padding. Cleaning is straightforward: silicone items should be rinsed with warm water and mild soap or toy-cleaner, then air-dried. Cloth/fabric parts (blindfold, cuffs) can be spot cleaned and left to dry thoroughly before storage. The strap system’s clips and webbing can be wiped down as needed.

The material types do imply that proper drying and storage are important as with any restraint gear to prevent wear or smell. From a body-safety standpoint, the kit is suitable for beginners, though those with sensitive skin or allergies should check materials and hardware. The ball gag’s holes for breathability are a practical plus for safety. Overall: adequate materials, reasonable care required, especially if you expect frequent use.

Packaging

The unboxing experience is functional and informative. The box clearly lists contents and includes safety and consent reminders a commendable touch especially for kink newcomers. One reviewer said: “The packaging is brightly colored and fun … There’s a LOT of information on the box, too. I appreciate that Lovehoney has provided a brief description on how to use each item as well as some basic information on safety and consent.” Items arrive individually wrapped or protected, though some packaging is noted as “just cellophane wrappers” not extravagant, but practical. Overall the packaging aligns with the kit’s purpose: informative, approachable, not luxury-chic but neither cheap or sloppy.

Price

The Take Control kit is positioned as a starter-to-intermediate bondage kit. You get a lot of bang for your buck here. Given the number of items (10) and variety included (restraints, gag, strap-on gear, blindfold, flogger, etc.), the value proposition is strong especially if used. For couples exploring BDSM or power-play for the first time, this kit presents an affordable way to sample multiple elements without purchasing each item separately. If you’re an experienced kinkster seeking premium leather, high-end hardware, extremely high intensity items, then you might opt for more specialized purchases. But for most users wanting breadth over ultra premium depth, the value is very good.