Spread’ems® by SpreadMeCo— The Butt Cheek Spreader You Didn’t Know You Needed (Until Now)

Sep 01, 2025
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My verdict

If you’ve never tried a cheek spreader before, Spread’ems® is a fun, affordable, and comfortable way to start. It’s beginner-friendly, easy to use, and offers that hands-free openness that can make oral, anal, and rimming so much more enjoyable. Just be aware: the sticky pads won’t last forever, especially if you’re a sweaty player or wash them frequently. That said, at this price, it’s an easy toy to experiment with — and if you love it, you can always upgrade or find creative ways to keep it in rotation. Rating would be 5/5 if the pads stayed sticky longer.

Pros

Comfortable straps — The nylon is soft, smooth, and adjustable.
Hands-free experience — Huge plus for multitasking or letting a partner roam.
Reusable — You don’t have to throw it away after one use.
Compatible with other bondage toys — It plays well with cuffs, blindfolds, plugs, vibrators, you nam
Perfect price point — It’s affordable enough to experiment without feeling guilty if it’s not your f
Beginner-friendly — No scary clamps or complicated assembly; you just stick and strap.

Cons

Sticky pads lose grip over time — Sweat, skin oil, and water from washing will make them less sticky
Not great for long, sweaty sessions — If you’re really active or things get extra heated
No replacement pads in the kit — You’ll have to improvise if the stickiness completely dies.
No replacement pads on sale in the site.

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    pattersonsarah666
    Sep 15, 2025
    This is a must have with my partner and I because he loves to spread me open and go really deep.

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