I want my bf to do one of these, whilst doing me. And try out this like, fantasy back and forth exchange of how we want "something" erotic, freaky and lust worthy to go down, that we havent explored together yet, and express details about whats happening, what their role is, and how certain thing's, or things saod or actions done in this particular kink would preferably go down for it to be almost worthy of feeling legit, until we both get off on it. Its like, interactice kink sharing, whilst involving each other, achieving the goal in mind if both can get on the same level and then experiencing/ exploring areas of our desirs that may not otherwise be shared comfortably, or actually achievable in most cases for whatever reason. Its like a barrier being broken for trust, keeping things fresh, and checks and balances system of pleasure, satisfaction and desires, hopefully. I like to sometimes use my toys in that way for my desires that are a bit above and beyond the norm or the things i usually search up, or fantasize on my own. I value sexual closeness and i believe half of anyy insecurity stems from another feelings not in tne know, unheard, communication/trust issues overall from a previous relationship, past trauma or current relationship problems. But with careful and sensitive exploration, and involvement of the other, it can be a shared learning that both coyld enjoy. Not that this is necessary because sex is sex and sex is fun, but im like...THIS, BUT FOR SCIENCE, but not really, because just this alone...ad idc what science finds or discovers, because what turns me on i wanna share and explore just as much as learning what my partner likes and wants too!