Car Sex Guide (With Car Sex Positions)
- 11 Follow
- 1 Collect
- 2 Like
- 987 Read
- Report

Car Sex
Car sex represents the ultimate thrill for adventurous couples. The appeal lies in its discreetness and the utter excitement of a public hookup. You might be wondering about the ideal locations and most comfortable positions for intimate moments in such a compact space. The secret is in the spontaneity that comes with car sex.
It’s time to get your freak on you little horndog, just don’t get caught because it’s not technically legal. In most jurisdictions, intimate activities in public places can lead to charges ranging from indecent exposure to disorderly conduct. You have been warned.
The Road (a)Head to Pleasureville
Before getting into the nitty gritty of car sex I have two words for you, road head. Before you dive head first into your carnal pleasures consider setting the mood as you drive to your destination. Some heavy touching including fingering and giving head can go a long way for arousal.
Road head, giving your partner oral sex while they’re driving, is not necessarily safe in a moving vehicle because the driver gets distracted as pleasure courses through their veins in rhythm to your sultry sucks. However, if you are feeling adventurous, push the driver's seat back for the passenger to lean over the console so there is enough space for you to go down on your partner as they writhe beneath your touch. For tips and tricks on how to give mind boggling cunnilingus or fellatio check out our guide on Oral Sex Tips: How to Eat Pussy or Suck Dick. This can be a nice prelude before finding a secluded space for you to move onto naughtier things.
Finding the Perfect Spot
Location selection is crucial for both enjoyment and privacy.
Consider these options:
- Scenic overlooks during off-peak hours
- Empty parking lots away from security cameras and foot traffic
- Remote country roads with natural privacy barriers
- Drive-in movie theaters (particularly during less popular screenings)
Privacy accessories can significantly enhance your comfort.
Consider investing in:
- Window sunshades for the front windshield
- Side window privacy screens
- A small blanket that can be quickly deployed
Cowgirl Isn’t Just for the Rodeo
Cowgirl is one of the positions that is both versatile and easy to maneuver within a car setting. Straddle your partner and move up and down on their strap-on or penis. What is great about this position is that both partners can remain partially clothed. The person on top can don a skirt, dress, or mini shorts that can be moved to the side as they are penetrated. Whereas, the person sitting down could have their pants and underwear pulled down just enough to slip between their partners folds. This position typically works the best if the person on top has a vagina.
For even better friction, get in the backseats of the car and do reverse cowgirl by riding at your own pace while using the seats in front as a way to bear some of their weight and to make bouncing just a touch easier. Reverse cowgirl is a great way to switch up your viewing angle: a frontal view of your partner's butt, hair, and waist as they assume a seated position on you. Expert tip, if you're the one riding it may be beneficial to rock back and forth on the penis or strap on to get extra stimulation. If you’re into bondage using the two front seat head rests can be an excellent place to be tied up and choked while being penetrated from the backside.
#1 Backseat Rodeo
This one's not too hard to get into!
#2 Bumper to Bumper
Requires more space but you can definitely get it down with what you have!
#3 Doggy Style
Doggy style is another great car sex position that can take the experience from cute to cum worthy in a few strokes. Similar to cowgirl, most of your clothes can stay on.
With your partner on all fours in the backseat there are a multitude of options for pleasure:
- The person on top can thrust their penis in either the anus or vagina.
- Rimming is another great option for partners that want to explore each other’s bodies with their tongues. Both rimming and pussy eating are easily achievable in the doggy style position.
- Since doggy can make people cum very quickly it may be in your best interest to resort to oral stimulation before opting for penetrative sex.
#4 Hydraulic Bounce
EXPERIENCED RIDERS ONLY.
Where do I have Car Sex?
Car sex can happen anytime and anywhere. As we've explored throughout this post, physical intimacy isn't limited to traditional settings. For couples seeking spontaneity, your vehicle can offer an unexpected haven for connection. Just remember to exercise good judgment—choose secluded locations and be mindful of local regulations, as many jurisdictions have laws regarding public conduct that could lead to legal complications if ignored. It is also a good practice to keep “sex napkins” on deck ready to go. Sex can be messy, and when you reach your climax, your pleasure particles can get everywhere. Make sure you have a napkin, rag, or baby wipes to make the clean up process as easy as possible.
Whether you’re in the front seat, back seat, or hood of the car (you risky vixen), remember to have fun! Be sure to check out ToyChats.com for more ideas and advice on adding excitement and variety to your intimate moments together!
Contributors
Hello ToyChat Community! As Associate Editor, I have the privilege of reading, reviewing, and editing all your wonderful work to make it user-friendly for our site. It's great getting to know everyone through the toy reviews, and it's even more exciting to be on the cutting edge of the industry. Sometimes I get to contribute my own work as well, which is wonderful to be part of an open and honest community that's working to destigmatize the topic of sex. Thanks for all your hard work, and keep on writing!

By the same author
The Tiny but Mighty Womanizer Starlet 2
The Womanizer Starlet 2 is a great compact sex toy for nearly every occasion. The air technology and suctioning hit the clit in just the right spot.
- 391
- 4
- 4
Doxy Original Massager Review: Good Vibes All Around
The Doxy Original Massager is a great time for anyone looking to expand into the vibrating toy realm. The three button control system was intuitive, and it was easy to go back and forth between vibration intensities. This toy was very rumbly as opposed to buzzy, and the higher settings proved to be very intense. This wand was on the heavier side, and it was a little difficult to hold in place for long periods of time. Since the user has full control in terms of intensity, it was very easy to edge with this device. It took me like 30 minutes to reach an orgasm which is great because I tend to relish in my intimate experiences.
- 206
- 4
- 1
Funzze Super Powerful Massager: The Buzz-Worthy Truth
The Funzze Super Powerful Massager is a great addition to any toy collection, fully equipped with 8 speeds and 20 vibration modes, this vibe will rock your world. What I appreciated about this massager was I could use it all over my body, which is not something that is applicable for all sex toys. I started my exploration by using the massager on my clit, but the vibrations were pretty powerful so I opted for putting a thin towel between my clit and the massager for more gentle vibrations to the area. After I got warmed up, I was able to forgo the towel, and use the massager directly on my clit. The vibrations were strong, and I was able to orgasm quickly, which was surprising because the toys in my collection usually take me 10-40 minutes to reach my climax. I am still learning the speeds and intensities that are best for my body, but I can say I really enjoyed the Funzze massager.
- 277
- 5
- 3
Motorbunny Cruiser: Travel Friendly Pleasure
For clarity, the Motorbunny Cruiser is not a sex toy, in fact it is a specialized carrying case designed to transport adult products discreetly and conveniently. Rather than being a toy itself, the Cruiser serves as a comprehensive storage solution for Motorbunny devices including the Original, BUCK models, power adapters, controllers, and various attachments. Motorbunny is known for creating inventive sex machines and gear that sometimes it may be difficult to haul these products when traveling. What I especially like about this product is that it features a removable Motorbunny logo on the front panel, giving users the option to travel with or without brand identification based on their comfort level and privacy preferences. I feel like it is a great solution for having autonomy over your sex life, and not letting travel and discretion stop you from experiencing pleasure.
- 247
- 5
- 1
See The Latest In Sex Toy News, Deals, And Reviews.
Keep In Touch With The ToyChats Newsletter
- Round-UpThe 20 Best Rabbit Vibrators That'll Have You Hopping Into Bed!
Ladies, are you looking for a leg thumping, hare raising, 25-carrot gold kind of time?! Then hop on over here and check out some of the best rabbit vibrators!
NotSoInnocent
Jul 04, 2025
- Health & LoveWhy Do Some Asexuals Have Sex?
Why do asexuals have sex? Is it normal? Yes, it's completely normal. Let's talk about it.
Saash
Jun 14, 2025
- Health & LoveHow to Get Rid of a Fetish: Can You Really Change What Turns You On?
The question "can I change what arouses me?" is more common than you might think. Let's dive into this messy world of sexual desires and fetishes, and whether you actually can – or should – try to change them.
Eechic41
Jun 16, 2025
- GuidesDominatrix Tools and Impact Toys
Calling all Dominatrix Baddies, who want to learn more about the right impact toys and submission tools for taming your partner.
kennedy
Jul 03, 2025
- GuidesHow to Use a Cock Ring for Better Pleasure and Performance
Cock rings might seem like no big deal at first glance, but don’t let their low-key look fool you they can seriously turn up the heat in the bedroom. These little rings work by gently slowing blood flow, which can help you stay harder, feel more sensitive, and enjoy longer sessions (yes, please). Whether you’re flying solo or getting down with a partner, they’re a fun, beginner-friendly way to explore new sensations and amp up your pleasure. In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know from picking the right fit and style to staying safe while you play, so you can dive in with confidence and maybe a bit of curiosity, too.
Yours Truly
Jun 25, 2025
- Health & LoveWhat Turns Women On: The Complete Guide to Female Turn-Ons
Think you can turn me on? Maybe after you read this post on ToyChats.
Eechic41
Jul 13, 2025