CalExotics Regal Duchess Plus Size Strap-On Harness Review

Sep 29, 2025
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My verdict

I've tried a lot of strap-on harnesses, but I keep going back to the CalExotics Regal Duchess Harness. It fits up to a 64" waist and can accommodate larger toy bases thanks to the o-ring fasteners not having any backing that limit its capability. There are 2 other harnesses in the "Her Royal Harness" line that I've tried, and each of the 3 have different pros & cons, but ultimately I felt that the Regal Duchess was the best match for me and my needs! Regal Empress is easiest to put on thanks to a large buckle, but can't handle toys with large bases. Regal Queen has a corset style back that provides a bit more stability, but can't accommodate large bases. Regal Duchess can accommodate large bases, but isn't as stable as the Regal Queen. Ultimately, it depends on what you need! I need a harness that can fit my plus size body AND can fit large toy bases (think Bad Dragon & other indie fantasy toy companies with their huge size toys).

Pros

Adjustable strap-on harness to fit up to 64" waist
Can accommodate large base toys
Available in red or gold
Includes 3 o-ring sizes
Vegan leather with plush velvet lining

Cons

Adjustable straps are likely too long for non-plus size bodies
Velvet lining is not the easiest to clean
Not as much stability as another harness in the line

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Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Gold
Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Gold
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Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Gold
Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Red
Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Red
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Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Red
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Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Pewter
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Her Royal Harness The Regal Duchess O-Ring Harness by CalExotics - Pewter
Her Royal Harness - The Regal Duchess
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