Amanita by Fantasy Grove is one of my absolute favorite fantasy dildos in my collection! The vertical texture is much easier on me than horizontal texture, and the "coronal ridge" is the perfect mushroom head for stimulating the g-spot or prostate. This short but thick dildo is anal safe, harness compatible, and seriously cute! To get an Amanita of your own, you can either shop Fantasy Grove's 2x/month inventory drops or order a custom made-to-order (MTO). With MTOs, you can select your size, firmness, pour style, colors, and add-ons. I absolutely love this dildo, I love Fantasy Grove, and I imagine you will too!

When it comes to accommodating my plus size body and hand grip issues, I have yet to find a better wand than the Blush Wellness Eternal Wand. The handle is extra long & ergonomically designed for comfortable & easy holding, and the head is smaller than most wands which makes it more comfortable between my body & my partner's body. Really, the biggest downside is the battery life is shorter than many rechargeable wands. It comes with a remote control, which I honestly don't use very often, but I recognize that it may help others. The remote control is NOT waterproof, but the wand itself is waterproof submersible, so you can use it in the shower or bathtub or pool for up to 30 minutes at a maximum depth of 1 meter/~3 feet. If you or someone you play with are either plus size or want toys that are accessible, I urge you to consider the Blush Wellness Eternal Wand. It really is that good!!

Of the Solina Toys full line-up, Prima is ranked low on my list but only due to size. I prefer a slightly larger dildo, both length and girth wise, but just because that's *my* preferences doesn't mean that yours are the same! Prima is a well made dildo with the same features I've come to know and love from Solina Toys: strong suction cup, hyper-realistic details, dual-density, and made with body-safe silicone. I appreciate that it doesn't just come in a single realistic color, instead available in 3 different realistic skintones. Though Prima may not be The One for me, I do really recommend Solina Toys for anyone who is seeking affordable realistic dildos.

While I've ultimately decided that Quinn isn't the right vibrator for me, it is still a well-made vibrator that can work for others. I like how flexible it is, and the warming feature really helped speed up my arousal. The bulbous shape of the g-spot stimulator was also really great for me & my anatomy. I personally won't re-purchase this unless they come out with a version in which I can separately control the internal & external motors. One intensity for both just doesn't work well for me, but I've also got a fairly picky anatomy! Blush's proprietary Puria® Platinum Cured Silicone and UltraSilk® Satin Smooth really make their products feel so much more luxurious than their price point would indicate, and they do make good products. This is just a case of "not every toy will work for every anatomy!" At only $83.99, the price point is really fair for this, especially since it doesn't have separately controlled motors. With the holiday season coming up, I think Quinn would make an excellent gift!

Even in the short time that Cassie has used the Bathmate HydroXtreme, we've both noticed changes in her erections! Using water for pumping creates a safer and more even level of pressure than using an air pump, so this definitely gets a big thumbs up from both of us. The HydroXtreme is the top of the line offering from Bathmate, but it does come at a higher price tag. The pump itself starts at $219.99 for the smallest size, and the larger sizes do go up in price. We got the HydroXtreme Kit, which starts at the same price point but goes up faster & further. The kit also includes a cleaning spray, storage/travel bag with a padlock, shower strap, cleaning brush, and towel. Measuring yourself accurately is really important when picking a pump from Bathmate, so be sure to follow their on-site instructions to make sure you get the right size for you & your needs! Overall, both Cassie and I are really happy with the Bathmate HydroXtreme. We've still got more testing to do, but for the short period that she's been using it, we can see and feel that it's working!

As a big fan of Twilight Meadow Creations, I was really excited to get Bjarkan to review! This big toy can be used in a variety of ways: as a pussy plug, a butt plug, or as a dildo! You could even grind on it too, if you wanted. While this toy was a bit too big for me, I used it repeatedly on my wife who loved it as a dildo more than as a butt plug. TMC is based in Sweden and make really beautiful fantasy sex toys. Bjarkan is no exception to that! It's based off a troll penis, and has a moderate level of texture. The blunt tip can make insertion a little challenging, so make sure you've got plenty of lube and patience. Cassie, my wife, says that anyone who is looking for a thick but short dildo should absolutely try Bjarkan out!

A few months ago, I'd never heard of Crassie but after they reached out to see about working together, I'm happy to report that I'm now a big fan of their dual density! It's so soft & squishy, and I love how bendable it is even with the firm core. The suction cup base makes it both harness compatible and anal safe, and who doesn't love a good suction cup on their dildos?! My wife & I have started calling the Velvet Touch dildo "The Finger", and like a real finger, you can use this dildo with a "come hither" motion that really blows my mind. Lesbian or not, Crassie's Velvet Touch is a fantastic dildo for anyone with a vulva, especially if they want non-phallic designs, dual density, or don't like textured dildos. I'd recommend it!

I've swooned over Fera Daemon's branding for ages, and their toys are even better in person than they are in pictures! They really excel at world building, as all their toys tie into a bigger story of the land of Fera. I loved learning more about their magical world with the optional artwork. I love how discreet the design is. It's so discreet that I happily keep it on my altar with other shiny rocks and crystals. I do wish that Fera Daemon had softer firmness options, as the softest option they have is Shore A-1, which is more firm than a gel shoe insert. The larger the size, the more dense the firmness will feel, so keep that in mind when ordering. Overall, I highly recommend checking out Fera Daemon and their beautiful toys! Each toy is non-phallic and discreet, and Echo is one of the more unique models I've seen from an indie toy company.

After years of using nJoy Pure Wands that belong to lovers and costars, I finally got one of my very own (thanks to ToyChats)! The packaging is elegant, with a heavy duty storage box to store the toy in. It's a heavy duty toy and weighs a lot, but it's made with medical grade stainless steel that is body-safe. Steel is a great material for those who are into temperature play, which takes things up a notch. The Pure Wand has helped me get better at squirting, which is something I've really been working on learning how to control. Not everyone can squirt with it, but with time and practice, maybe it'll help you too! Overall, I'm really happy with the Pure Wand and the only thing I regret is not getting one sooner.

Ever since the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy arrived, it's been my go-to g-spot vibrator. I love the big, bulbous head!! While I enjoy the incremental speed control, it can take some getting used to if you've never used a BMS toy with that feature before, and it's not for everyone. Once you get used to it, it's really nice to be able to find just the right level of intensity. I'm also really glad that this vibrator doesn't have any vibration patterns or modes. They almost always feel unnecessary to me, especially when I'd rather have a wider range of intensities instead. Overall, I love the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy. It's beautiful, the silicone is luxurious to the touch, and I reach for this vibe on the regular for both solo & partner play!

As someone who has a lot of grinders in my collection, both my wife & I regularly reach for these from Uncover Creations. I think grinders are a great way to de-centralize penetration in your sex life, and there's nothing quite as hot as watching someone hump & grind on my thigh while I use my hands or another toy on them. I think The Maw Grinder is my wife's favorite of the three, while mine is the Tentacle Grinder II. I like the handheld grinder more than my wife does, but she hasn't tried that one on herself and she may enjoy it more that way. I love that grinders can be used by any body type / any anatomy, as long as you're open to trying something new ;)

Of all the lubricants I've tried over the years, I always end up going back to System JO. Their lubes are luxuriously priced, but they're also really good lubes that are pH balanced and safe to use both vaginally & anally and come in a variety of flavors (in case that's your thing). As someone who doesn't drink much, I still really enjoyed the fun flavors of the Cocktails line from System JO, though I think I'm more likely to purchase other flavors in the future.