What Even Is This Thing?

A pillow. For sex. Sounds like a late-night infomercial disaster, right? 😅
But hold up – don’t scroll away just yet. Because sometimes the simplest things are the ones you end up using all the time. And that’s exactly what the Liberator Wedge turned out to be for us.

We’ll admit it – we weren’t instantly sold. The first time I mentioned it, Karl looked at me like I’d just asked if we could start using orthopedic supplies in bed. “A wedge? Really?” Yes. Really 😏

Liberator is a brand that’s fully dedicated to “bedroom furniture.” That means cushions, ramps, and props that are designed to make sex easier, comfier, and way more fun. Not some gimmicky fluff – actual, useful stuff. And honestly? We debated for months if this was even worth trying. But spoiler alert: this might be one of the few reviews where we literally have no complaints 🫣

So what even is the Wedge?
It's a triangular support pillow – dense inside, soft and plush on the outside. It’s designed to lift your hips, your back, your knees – wherever you need a boost. It’s not big or bulky, but it gives just the right amount of lift to completely change the angle (and yeah, the sensation 😉).

Size-wise, you’ve got options:
👉 Regular: 14 x 24 x 7 inches
👉 Plus Size: 14 x 30 x 7 inches

(Picture from Liberator's Website)

We went with the Regular, and it’s more than enough for most positions, bodies, and bed sizes.

There are a ton of variations, too:

• With or without hand straps (ours is strap-free for now – baby steps 😏)

• In sleek faux leather or up to 14 microfiber colors (we chose classic black – because it goes with everything, obviously)

• You can also pair it with the Liberator Ramp, a much larger version that turns it into a full-on sex platform. But honestly, our bedroom isn’t that kind of showroom… yet

(Picture from Liberator's Website)

It comes vacuum-sealed – which is low-key satisfying to unbox – and it fluffs up fast with zero weird smells. The cover is washable, grippy, and most importantly: it doesn’t slide around during action. Trust me, we tested it... thoroughly.

So yeah, it looks like an innocent pillow. But just wait.
The real magic is in how you use it—and we’ve got stories. 😈

Comfort – Cushion – Quality

Before we get into all the hot stuff – like how this thing actually performs in action and which positions made us moan – we need to talk about how it actually feels to use. Like, what is it like to lie, kneel, grind, or just vibe on this thing?

Let’s start at the top. We got the basic black microfiber version. The outer fabric? It’s soft – almost velvety – but not quite reaching full “oh-my-god-let-me-rub-my-face-on-it” levels. We kinda wish it had a little more lushness to it, but honestly? It’s still super skin-friendly. I’ve used it totally naked, sweaty, lubed up – and never once felt like it chafed or stuck weirdly.

Peel off the top layer (yes, it’s removable and machine washable – thank you, Liberator 🙌), and you hit the waterproof inner liner. That’s the one that keeps your foam safe from, well… bodily excitement.
Spoiler: it holds up during squirting adventures. We tested it. For science. 😉

Underneath that, you meet the real MVP – the foam.
It’s not memory foam like your fancy sleep pillow. Nope. This stuff is firmer, denser, and way more springy. It compresses just a little under your weight, but always pops back into shape instantly. No sagging, no weird dents. It’s like the toy version of a personal trainer: tough but supportive 💪

Now, let’s talk feel: The first time I climbed on, I actually burst out laughing. I expected it to give way more – but nope. It’s a little tower you gotta mount. 😂 Once you're up there though? So comfy.
It fully supports your hips, your back, your everything, and it makes you feel kind of… lifted and ready. The shape does a lot of the work, and the foam gives just enough to feel natural – but still keeps you perfectly positioned.

We’ve tried it in every setup:

• Lying down

• Kneeling

• Sideways

• Propped up against a headboard

• Even as a soft perch for face-sitting (no regrets)

It never once slid away, flattened out, or lost shape.

Another big bonus: no sweaty mess. We expected to get a bit clammy, especially during longer sessions, but honestly? The microfiber fabric absorbs heat surprisingly well, and it stays way cooler than you'd think. No sticky thighs, no swampy backs – just smooth, supported fun.

Oh, and did I mention again? The cover is washable. Meaning: no more ruining your nice bed pillows for sex props. No towels needed. Just throw the Wedge on the bed, go wild, then unzip and toss it in the wash later. Done.

Liberator absolutely nailed the design here. It does 100 % exactly what it promises to do – no fluff, no failures.
The foam? Perfect density. The shape? Game-changing. And the comfort?
Couples play approved. Hardcore.

The Big Back Question

Let’s be real for a sec: we’re not 19 anymore. Knees crack, arms get tired, and backs? They love to complain.
So the idea of having something in bed that actually supports your body instead of wrecking it?
Yeah… enter the Liberator Wedge – aka our new orthopedic BFF 💁‍♀️

Okay okay, jokes aside – we both try to stay active and do our stretches, but still, certain sex positions were always a bit of a physical gamble. Especially ones that need core tension or arm strength (hi, doggy holding plank, we’re looking at you 👀).
And here’s where the Wedge really shows off: it makes everything feel easier.

The difference was almost immediate. Where we used to have to tense up, balance awkwardly or adjust mid-thrust, we could now just sink in and focus on the fun stuff. No slipping, no cramping, no weird angles. Honestly?
It supports better than any of our fancy memory foam pillows ever did.

Now, there is a bit of a learning curve. The Wedge has two sides:

• One flatter, meant to lay down

• One angled, meant to support you

And yes, you can’t just flip it randomly. We tried. It tilts weirdly, and your body’s like: “nope.” 😅
Once you figure out which side goes where and how to align your body, though? It’s golden.

At first, we worried the angles might put more strain on our backs – especially with the hips tilted up and the butt more elevated than usual. But honestly?
That wasn’t the case at all. Even during longer sessions – multiple positions, some sweaty action, limbs doing the absolute most – neither of us ever reached for the Wedge to toss it aside.
Not once did it feel too hard, or like the foam pressed into our spine. No skin irritation, no back twinges, no awkward “we need a break” moments. If anything, it was the opposite: It felt like our backs could finally chill.
The arms didn’t have to work so hard. The lower back had legit support. And the entire body just… relaxed. That’s honestly half the battle during sex – being able to let go, not worry about cramping up mid-move.

So if you’ve got back problems, tight hips, or are just tired of stuffing your nice sleeping pillows under your butt?
The Wedge might be exactly the support system your sex life has been missing. 🖤

Position – Power – Does It Change the Game?

Yes yes, we know – we’re writing a novel again. But let’s be honest, you’re not here for foam specs or fabric talk. You wanna know what this thing actually does in real-life couple play. Is it worth it for the positions you actually use?
Short answer: hell yes. Long answer? Buckle up.

If you need inspo, there are diagrams on the packaging, in the little booklet, and all over the Liberator website. But of course, we went full field test mode and tried everything ourselves. Ready for the big breakdown?

Doggy – With a Twist

Okay, let’s not lie. Karl and I are hardcore doggy fans. Along with missionary, it’s our go-to – call us basic, we’ll wear that badge proudly 😉 So naturally, we had to see what the Wedge could do here.

Now here’s the honest truth: pure, classic doggy style isn’t where the Wedge shines brightest.
For that, you’d want something taller and longer – like Liberator’s On a Mission cushion, which we also happen to own (because… obviously). That one props you up higher and gives more length to work with.

The Wedge? It’s lower. So the typical doggy lift isn’t quite there. BUT.
What you do get is a magical sweet spot between doggy and prone bone – and that, my friends, is where things get steamy. 🔥

Lying down on it in this angled version is insanely comfy. Normally, I’d either be arching my hips or Karl would lift me manually – but the Wedge does all the work. And the result?
Karl’s obsessed – the hip tilt puts my curves in the spotlight, and that slight elevation changes everything.
He says the angle is more natural, more intense, and more fun to thrust into.
And me? I was basically purring. The tilt makes penetration effortless and deep, and I swear, it felt like Karl hit every damn nerve ending on the way in.

Now – G-spot stimulation isn’t where this setup shines.
Because the hips are tilted forward, the G-spot ends up getting tucked a little higher, which actually makes it harder to hit. So if that’s your goal, this might not be the perfect angle. But for depth, pressure, and full-body oh-my-godness? Approved. Hardcore.

Missionary – Full G-Spot Heaven

And speaking of G-spot stimulation… Let’s talk missionary. Because this is where the Wedge absolutely steals the show.

From the first thrust, I was sold. Like – “I need to tell everyone about this” level sold.
The elevation it gives your hips? Exactly what you want if G-spot stimulation is your jam. And paired with the stability, support, and soft surface? It’s literal G-spot heaven. 😅

Karl was hitting every angle like the Wedge came with a blueprint of my anatomy. I didn’t even need to adjust or shift – it just worked.
Legs up, legs down, wrapped around him, knees wide – it didn’t matter. The Wedge held it down (and held me up), perfectly.

Plus, bonus perk: the raised hips gave us way better access to my clit.
Whether it was Karl’s hands or a toy in the mix, everything had more room to move. Because of the tilt, Karl was slightly more upright, which meant I had extra space between us. More angles, more access, more vibes.

Karl added this little note too (because he’s cute like that):
He was worried at first that the height might make us feel… far apart. That he’d have to support his weight awkwardly or tire his arms. But nope. He found that he could still comfortably lean into me and stay close without strain.
His final word? “Actually really comfy. And I didn’t even get tired.”

Cowgirl – Highs and Lows

Liberator suggests two Wedge options for Cowgirl:

• Under the knees

• Under the hips

Let’s start with the knee variation. It’s honestly not a gamechanger for me, but Karl? He was thrilled. His knees usually bear the brunt of this position, so having some cushion under there made it way more comfortable for him. Bonus: the slight leg elevation gave me more bounce support and a feeling of being a bit more “locked in.” Not life-altering, but definitely an upgrade.

Now under the hips? That’s where things get interesting.
The lift makes a big difference in depth – Karl could hit my G-zone with way less effort. The angle felt sharper, fuller, and yes, dirtier. 😏
BUT – and this is important – the tighter angle also means less room for toys. Especially clit vibes. The gap between our bodies was smaller, and my access space felt cramped. So while the penetration felt chef’s kiss, my go-to vibrator had to sit out this round.

Also… the legs. Oh, the legs.
This position really tested my flexibility. You’ve got three real options:

• On Karl’s thighs (ouch if your knees hate bending)

• Next to his legs, on the Wedge (stretchy and awkward)

• Off to the sides, flat on the bed (only works if you’ve got some flexibility)

We made it work and actually figured out a groove we liked – but only because we have the Regular size Wedge. If you go Plus, your thighs might end up hovering in no-man’s-land. 😅

Reverse Cowgirl – A Quick Skip

Not gonna sugarcoat it: reverse cowgirl + Wedge = nope.
All the knee and leg issues from Cowgirl, but worse. The angles feel off, the support isn’t helping, and it’s just… meh.
Skip. Next.

Spooning – Sorry, Not Made for Sideways Love

Look, we love a good lazy spoon session.
But the Wedge? Not built for it.
The angled design actually throws off the whole alignment in side-lying positions. It feels like it wants to help, but ends up kind of pushing your spine into a twist. More herniated disc than hot spooning.
Another pass.

69 – The Surprise MVP

Now we’re talkin’. Because who said the Wedge is just for penetration? We both love 69 – but let’s be honest, the alignment can be tricky when there’s a height difference. I usually end up hunching forward, Karl has to crane his neck, and one of us ends up a bit awkward.

Enter: the Wedge.

We slid it under Karl’s hips while he was lying down and boom – his pelvis tilted upward, bringing everything closer to me. Suddenly I didn’t have to crawl halfway up the bed to reach him, and his neck wasn’t at some weird angle either. Win-win.

Plus, I wasn’t hanging off him in full push-up mode. With him elevated, I could rest more easily, stay relaxed, and go deeper.
Literally deeper – because, folks… this is now our go-to Deepthroat setup. The lifted hips, tilted pelvis, open neck angle? Perfect throat alignment.
We just stared at each other like “Wait, what?” the first time, and then laughed our way into round two. We’ve done Deepthroat play before, but never this comfortably. Being able to relax and breathe? Game. Changed.

Some quick side notes:
Under Karl’s head? Don’t. The Wedge isn’t cozy for your skull, and again, those legs have nowhere to go.
If Karl’s on top in 69 and we put the Wedge under my hips? Approved again. He gets better access to my erogenous zones, I’m more open, and his mouth is right where it needs to be. 10/10, would repeat.

Blowjob – Better Angles, Better Access

Let’s talk oral – because yes, the Wedge changes the game here too.

If your partner is lying on his back and you’re in front of him – whether you’re into classic blowjobs, rimming, or ball play – the Wedge seriously steps up your setup. It tilts the pelvis just right, bringing everything up and forward, making all those sensitive spots way more accessible.

The elevation takes pressure off your neck, lets you lean in at a better angle, and honestly? It just feels more natural.
One tiny downside from me (Leni): I sometimes like to rest my head on Karl’s thighs while I’m going down on him – kind of a comfy cuddle-blowjob hybrid. That doesn’t work as well now, since his hips are tilted and his legs are a bit higher. Not a dealbreaker, but worth mentioning.

Everything else though? Chef’s kiss. 😅

Cunnilingus – Karl’s Turn

Alright, taking over here – it’s Karl, and I’ve got opinions.

Honestly, I didn’t expect the Wedge to make this much of a difference for oral. But now? I refuse to go down without it.😅

Let’s start with Leni on her stomach. If you read the Pronebone bit earlier, you know that angle already rocks for penetration – and it’s even better for eating her out.
The Wedge lifts her hips just enough to tilt everything forward, giving me prime access to her curves and everything underneath.
Bonus? That view. I mean… yeah. Curves for days. I could stare forever. 😂

From a practical angle: the extra lift means I don’t have to twist or crane my neck. I can just dive in – and stay in. Whether I’m teasing her anal, working my tongue deeper, or adding a finger (or two), it’s all just easier.

And when Leni’s on her back?
Same deal – her tilted hips bring her pussy closer, so I’m not straining or readjusting mid-lick. Honestly, I’ve never had this much ergonomic support while eating her out. It’s like Liberator designed the Wedge for oral comfort and forgot to brag about it.

Also – we’re super mindful about not mixing anal and vaginal play (because ✨ hygiene ✨), so if I’m going back and forth, I wipe down or glove up – and yes, the Wedge works for both setups. Rimming? Best angle. Fingering? Full access.
My neck thanks me. My tongue thanks me. Leni definitely thanks me. 😏

Face-Sitting – Not the Vibe

As much as we wanted the Wedge to help here… nah.

Face-sitting on a slanted cushion? Not ideal. The angle pushes your neck into a weird crunch. The legs struggle to find a good place to rest. It just doesn’t feel grounded. For us, it was more awkward than hot.
Skip. You’re better off flat for this one.

Solo Adventure – Wedge Style

Not every toy works for both of us. And the Wedge? Solo use is one of those “it depends” situations.

Karl:
For me? Not really the vibe. I’ve tried it, but honestly, I don’t benefit from the hip elevation the way Leni does. The On a Mission version (which is taller and supports fleshlights) just works way better when I’m flying solo. So yeah – for me, the Wedge is a couples-only tool.

Leni:
For me though? Total gamechanger. I’m on the shorter side, so using internal toys can be tricky –
Arms too short, body too long, angles all wrong.
And over time, laying flat for solo play can get really uncomfortable. My shoulders and lower back start screaming before I even get close to the fun part. Enter the Wedge.
That tilted hip angle? Perfection. It gives me better reach, better access, and a way comfier angle for hitting the right spots.

And now... let me share my secret little obsession: If you have an insertable vibrator, like Nora from Lovense – USE IT WITH THE WEDGE.

Because of the incline, I can slide down just enough, insert Nora, and let the handle rest naturally on the slope of the pillow.
It props the toy up at just the right angle without forcing it deeper or awkwardly out of place. I’m comfy, hands-free, and everything stays exactly where it should. Hands-free G-spot sessions unlocked.
10/10 would recommend. New favorite solo combo? Absolutely. 🫣🔥

So… Does It Stay in Bed?

Absolutely.

At this point, the Wedge is non-negotiable. It’s not just a fun extra – it’s part of the routine.
We use it every single time, whether it’s for oral, G-spot play, angles, or just pure comfort. It lives next to the bed, ready to go – like our favorite third wheel.

It might look like a simple foam triangle… But in the right hands (and under the right hips)?
It’s a full-on sex upgrade. 🔥

Grip – vs – Slip

One of the most important questions for a sex support pillow like this? Does it actually stay in place? Or are you gonna end up sliding across the bed mid-thrust like a failed Olympic luge attempt?

Good news: the Wedge stays exactly where it’s supposed to.

Even without extra grip features like those on the On a Mission Mount, this thing just doesn’t move. And trust us – we tried. We tested it on sheets, on a mattress topper, on hardwood floor with a blanket (don’t ask), and even during some very energetic sessions.
Soft, slow, fast, rough – legs up, legs down – it held. Always. 💪

The trick? The combination of dense foam, angled shape, and just enough body weight keeps it locked in. No need to shove a yoga mat under it or adjust it every five minutes. It just. Doesn’t. Budge.

Now, let’s talk on the Wedge. Because of the sharp angle, there’s definitely a little learning curve when it comes to positioning. In the beginning, we had a few moments where someone would slip down the slope or accidentally push the whole thing a little forward. Not dramatic, just slightly awkward. 😂
But once we got our positioning dialed in? Rock solid. We didn’t feel like the microfiber made us slide – in fact, the surface has surprisingly good grip. It’s not sticky or rough, but it holds you well once your weight is on it. No more butt scooting off the edge mid-thrust.

And while we’re already talking about the fabric… One fun side note: it’s not exactly quiet. 😅
When you stroke or slide across it, the microfiber makes a little shhhk-shhhk noise – not loud like a vibrator, but definitely noticeable.
Kind of like the pillow’s own way of purring. 😏
So if you’re into silent stroking sessions or love to run your hands over fabric during foreplay – just know, this pillow’s got a bit of an auditory personality.

We wouldn’t change much though. The grip is reliable, the slippage is minimal once you learn your angles, and the whole thing just works – on the bed, under your hips, or under your partner’s ass. Wherever you need it, it stays.

Look – & – Bedroom Integration

So hear us out. When the Wedge first arrived, we were like: “Wait... did they send the wrong thing?”
The box looked tiny. Like, “this can’t possibly hold a whole-ass sex cushion” kind of tiny. But nope – turns out, Liberator vacuum-packs their pillows. Which is great for shipping, not so great for the environment (yep, lots of plastic, definite point deduction 🥲).

But the unboxing? An experience.
You peel back the plastic, and at some point it just goes PLOP – and the Wedge pops into full, glorious shape.
We stared at each other like, “Cool cool… where the hell is this gonna live?” 😂

Because here’s the deal: It’s not small. It’s relatively lightweight and easy to move, but no way is this fitting in a drawer. Forget bedside-table life. It needs its own little parking space.

We ended up sliding it between the bed and the wall, which works surprisingly well. Under-bed works too – if you’ve got the clearance.
And honestly, the wedge shape actually helps. It tucks into tight corners pretty naturally once you find the sweet spot.

Now, if you don’t wanna hide it? That works too. We got the black microfiber version, and visually? It doesn’t scream “SEX TOY!” at all.
It just kinda looks like a weird orthopedic cushion. If someone asks, it’s for your back. Or knees. Or posture. Easy peasy. 😇
(Just… maybe don’t let the dog sit on it. Or do. Your call.)

That said – it’s not cute enough to double as a decor pillow. And definitely not a sleep pillow – it’s too angled, too high, too firm.
But you don’t have to go full James Bond and hide it in a secret compartment either.
It blends in just fine – as long as you’ve got the space.

Cleaning – Lint, Fluids & Freshness

Let’s keep this one short and sexy: Cleaning the Wedge? Super easy. And that’s coming from two people who regularly make a mess in bed. 😅

First off, yes – the black microfiber cover attracts a bit of lint and dust. Not dramatic, but if you’ve got pets or wear fuzzy socks? You’ll see it. Thankfully, the fix is simple: Lint roller + 10 seconds = clean again.
The fabric’s not too coarse, so everything – hairs, fluff, random glitter (?) – comes right off.

If things get a little wetter than expected (hi, squirters 🫶):

• The outer cover is removable and washable

• The inner liner is water-resistant and shields the foam like a champ

We’ve had our Wedge through all kinds of sessions – and it still looks brand new. No stains, no smells, no squish loss.

Bottom line: Easy to clean, easy to love. Major plus point for both hygiene and laziness.

Beyond – the – Bedroom 😏

So… have we used the Wedge during a Netflix binge?
You bet.
Feet up, snacks in reach, perfect pelvic support – no shame. This baby isn’t just for bedroom antics. It’s a full-on lifestyle accessory.

Let’s start with the most unexpected use:

Laptop Stand

Ever sit in bed or on the couch with your laptop and wish it was just a little higher? Yeah. Enter: Wedge.
The angled surface lifts your screen, makes typing easier, and gives you that slightly elevated eye line. Total bonus.
(Just maybe don’t use it if your laptop runs hot. Foam and heat? Not besties.)

Also… if anyone questions why there’s a wedge-shaped cushion next to your bed? “Back support.” “Laptop pad.” “Posture correction.” Boom. Innocence restored. 😉

Leg Support, the Sexy Kind

Laying on your back in bed and your knees are like “why tho”?
Try this: Wedge under your knees.
The elevation relieves pressure, your lower back sinks in better, and suddenly you’re like, “Wow… am I being held?” It’s not medically certified (obviously), but damn – it’s a good multipurpose solution.

Backrest (Kinda)

You can prop it behind you while reading, but heads up: It’s firm.

If you’re into that “military upright book club” vibe, great. But for soft snuggly support? Maybe not your MVP.

Head Pillow? Eh, Nope.

As a headrest? Hard pass. The angle’s too steep, the foam too dense. It’s not comfy for side sleepers or back naps.
So yeah – the Wedge is a giver… but even givers have boundaries 😉

Bottom line?

This thing is multipurpose AF.
If you’ve got the imagination, the Wedge is ready.
Sex, rest, binge, support – we love a toy that works overtime.

Is This a Must-Have?

Hear us out. We totally get it. You’re staring at this triangle-shaped cushion thinking:
“Why would I spend €100 – €120 (or around $100 – $135) on something I could probably recreate with a stack of bed pillows?”

And you know what? We were right there with you. Sex cushion? Felt like a gimmick. We figured we’d use our sleeping pillows or roll up a blanket. DIY is cheaper, right?

But now?
The Liberator Wedge is the number one most-used thing in our couple play arsenal. No exaggeration. It lives in our bed.
We use it for oral, for penetration, even for lounging. It’s been tested in basically every position imaginable (you read the list 😏), and every time we go:
“Yeah, this just… works.”

The build? Flawless.
The foam? Supportive, springy, strong.
The shape? Thought-out and sex-friendly AF.

So is it worth it? Absolutely. Would we recommend it over any one single sex toy for couples? Yes. 100%.
It’s not flashy. It doesn’t vibrate. But what it does is transform your play – make it comfier, deeper, better aligned, and way more relaxed.

We waited too long to try it.
Now we honestly couldn’t imagine not having it. From all the DIY hacks to actual gear – nothing compares.

We’re not saying “Go buy it right now.” We get that it’s an investment. But if you’ve ever struggled with angles, pressure, access or just wanted a sexier, easier way to stay in the moment?

This could be your new favorite thing. It’s definitely ours. 🖤