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I have lived a BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years, and I bloody love this bit of kit! Highly recommend 💋💋💋

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 4.5 I give the Utimi BDSM Bondage Kit 4.5/5 stars!! I absolutely loved the variety of pieces, convenience of 11 matching pieces in 1 kit, the array of piece combinations and scenarios, the comfortable, high-end look and feel, and the incredible value. Just a couple minor, nitpicking things that could be better but I'm ALL IN on this kit!!

This bondage frame is an absolute steal for the price—around $300 from AliExpress, shipped. It's solid, heavy-duty, and endlessly customisable. Out of the box, the default setup leaves a lot to be desired (and possibly dislocated), but treat it like BDSM LEGO and it becomes a pervert’s dream project. Whether you’re into strict restraint, kinky engineering, or mounting a fucking machine like a mad scientist, this "slave frame" delivers serious value and versatility.

The Silicone O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps is essential for power exchange, layered BDSM scenes, and sensory play. It delivers: +Silence, submission, and psychological control +Tunable sensation and intensity through adjustable clamps +Flexibility for both beginners and advanced players +Integration with other bondage, sensory, and impact gear +Affordability (~$50–$60 USD) for its versatility and impact

Loved it! I use it pretty regularly and I've recommended it to friends as well. I am a sex educator and have given it away as a drawing prize at my kink education programs, too, because it's beginner friendly but also useful for advanced BDSM practitioners! I especially like it for travel, because it's small, doesn't contain metal (for TSA purposes), and it can go anywhere with you.

Overall, I am completely satisfied with my purchase. It was so fulfilling to be able to buy a dream BDSM furniture piece. Having the piece be compactible is mandatory with owning a one-bedroom apartment. The biggest issues that I run into to is having to be mindful about the flat vinyl top reacting to the black paint. I store those pieces separate from each other. And also, the Spanish horse attachment cannot be cleaned with alcohol-based products. Other than those two issues, I would highly recommend buying from these sellers. As a side note: The use of the Spanish horse should be done with consideration for medical issues such as balance and mobility.

The Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger is one of the most versatile, sensual, and psychologically rich toys in a collection — provided you treat it with respect, care, and awareness. Ideal for: Experienced couples exploring temperature play, dual sensations, impact + internal stimulation. People comfortable with firmer toys, precise control, and sensation variation (cold ↔ warm, soft ↔ firm). Scenes oriented around control, rhythm, contrast, and psychological layering rather than only penetration or vibration. Approach with caution if: You prefer very soft, flexible toys (silicone, gel). You’re new to glass or temperature play. There’s a risk of dropping the toy or using it carelessly (glass + hard floor = bad news). Overall: If used with attention to safety, cleaning, storage, and body awareness, the Lingam Glass Dildo Flogger becomes less a “toy” and more a tool of sensation orchestration — commanding depth, precision, and emotional intensity in a way few single-use or single-purpose toys can.

This is a fun kinky toy and more enjoyable than ball gag. Great fun, just a bit small and basic. 💋💋💋

The Extreme Restraints STRICT Armbinder is one of the most effective immobilization tools available for consensual power dynamics. It delivers: +structural restraint +elegant posture +deep psychological surrender and +strong reinforcement of Dominant leadership. It is for pairs who understand trust, communication, and the difference between control and harm. If your dynamic values: +discipline +form +focus +obedience and +clear hierarchy, this armbinder will elevate your scenes to a new level of intentionality. It is not a costume piece. It is not an accessory. It is a commitment to structured restraint. For Dominants who lead confidently — and submissives who surrender with purpose — it is a tool worthy of the craft.

I think these cuffs are so much fun and my partner and I have used them now multiple times. I didn't know what to expect as far as "installation" goes and was so pleased to see that they are so simple to use and that there was nothing at all that we had to put together. The soft velvety fabric of the cuffs also makes them quite pleasurable to have on. I can't wait to play with them again!

In my ongoing quest to try out every kind of bondage gag possible (check out my ultimate gag guide!), the pussy-face gag was up there on my ultimate must-try list. In theory, it’s a cracking idea: stick half a Fleshlight on the front of a gag plus something to hold the sub’s mouth open, and you have a recipe for a truly mindblowing face fuck. It should even provide a nice buffer for the sub (if you care). After reading some terrible reviews of the original Master Series Pussy-Face Gag (the hard internal part is far too big, apparently), I found a cheaper clone on AliExpress. Elsewhere, this is sold as the Sohimi Pussy Face Gag.

The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger is an inviting choice for anyone curious about exploring impact play. Made from real leather yet priced accessibly, it offers a taste of quality without the intimidation of luxury-level investment. Its weight and design make it easy to handle, especially for beginners, while still delivering enough presence to keep play exciting. It may not reach the heights of true artisan craftsmanship, but as an introduction to leather floggers, it strikes an excellent balance of affordability, durability, and pleasure.

The Utimi Restaining Thigh Straps and blindfold are incredible. They’re made of comfortable materials and have adjustable straps, ensuring the right fit every time. Ultimately, they’re a pretty simple design without extra bells and whistles. To put it on, loosen the thigh straps. Then, slip both thighs into their respective loops, allowing the connecting strap to lay across your lap. With the straps still loose, wrap the padded neck strap around the back of your neck and begin tightening the buckles. That’s it. It looks way more intimidating than it is. My partner and I had a lot of fun playing with this setup. The blindfold is soft, imitation silk that feels nice on your eyes. You have a range of position options to try, and despite being bound together, you can still move or be guided between them. Overall, this bondage device is dominating and comfortable.

Okay, we know. This review is long... Like “grab-a-snack-and-get-comfy” long. But that’s because we wanted to be as detailed and honest as possible – and, well… because we’re kind of obsessed. 🫣 The Liberator Wedge isn’t flashy or loud or vibrating – but it somehow became the MVP of our bedroom. And once we started writing about it, we couldn’t stop. Because it really does make that much of a difference. Whether it’s deeper sex, better oral, less back pain, or just less fidgeting with pillows – the Wedge gets it. It slides in (pun fully intended) where other toys can’t. And it stays. So yeah. Long review. Because short version wouldn’t do it justice. 😏

While most people think of a pair of handcuffs as the first step on a kink journey, they look a lot better in the movies than they feel in real life, more often leading to cries of "ow, those are digging into my back now", or "damn my wrists hurt." Instead, I'd argue that a decent under bed restraint system is a far more exciting introduction to bondage, and something will likely stay a part of your play chest even if you graduate to “harder” forms of bondage later. But shop wisely because not all under bed restraint systems are made the same. The DOMINIX Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under Mattress Set from LoveHoney is a solid choice, with leather cuffs and a secure method of mounting to your bed.